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I think we are done.:cry: Im so upset. The last week she has been completely refusing boobies... Ive tried to turn it around but I just cant. Ive even tried those breastflow bottles. She screams. Im really sad that we are finished so early.

Im really pissed off that I started giving bottles. Even though it was prob the right thing to do at the time because I wasnt coping I wish I had stuck it out longer.

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I know Ive done well to get to 2.5 months but I wanted to get further. I cried when I looked at my breastfeeding photos earlier. I feel like Ive let myself down. I feel like a quitter. breastfeeding made me feel special. I dont feel special anymore
 
You are special!! You're a mummy :smug:

You can still try, but it'll upset her for a bit. If she has no choice, she will drink out of them bottles x
 
i felt like that too when i stopped but really at the time you made the best decision for you and meadow so remember that.
you've got further than me and any feeding is a bonus.
dont bully yourself over it.
lotsa lotsa :hugs::hugs:
xx
 
:hugs: youve done so well and you are special, sooo many people dont even get through that first week and youve made it 2 and a half months!
 
oh hun dont beat yourself up!! you are special, you've fed her for the most important part! it is really upsetting for the first few days, i was gutted, but once we got used to it we were both a lot happier. xxxx
 
You have done incredibly well and you should be very very proud of yourself. You have given Meadow a wonderful gift. Well done Sparks.

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you've done so well. you've given Meadow the best start in life. You are special, you are her Mamma. If you ever feel ready you maybe be able to give her 1 feed a day if your milk doesn't dry up, maybe just a little drink before nap time.

You have done so well feeding for 2 and a half months you should be proud!
 
Well done you on getting this far. Remember, you have to be happy with the choices you make hun xxx
 
You have done really well hun. :hugs:

If you don't want to stop, then have you tried nipple shields?

If you do want to stop, then don't worry you have given Meadow the best :hug:
 
:hugs: you've done fab, don't beat yourself up. You've given Meadow the best start in life and you will always be special.
 
Aww you are special hun, you are a mummy and thats amazing!
You have done the best possible thing you could do for Meadow by giving her those 2.5 months, you should be so proud of yourself for that. You're a star xx
 
:hug: You have done incredibly well Sparks - and should be so very, very proud of yourself. You ARE special - you have given Meadow one of the very best gifts you can, and you made it to 2.5 months when so, so many give up in the first few days.

xxx
 
Awww don't beat yourself up, like the other girls said, you've given her the best start!
 
I know Ive done well to get to 2.5 months but I wanted to get further. I cried when I looked at my breastfeeding photos earlier. I feel like Ive let myself down. I feel like a quitter. breastfeeding made me feel special. I dont feel special anymore

honey you are none of these things, you have done a great job, try and focus on the next big step - FOOD!!!! xxxx
 

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