Saw fob by chance today. He ran away.

[surprisebaby]

Fob dumped me when he found i was pregnant. LO is 7 months old now. I hav seen him only once since pregnancy when LO was 2 weeks old. That's when he said he wanted nothing to do with her. He's a student so that time I had met him it was outside his exam hall.
Seven months later there has been no contact from him but I happen to bump into him today! He was with a girl who was obviously his girlfriend. As soon as he saw me he started walking really fast and escorting her along with him. I said (them facing their backs to me now) 'do u realise whAt u are doing is wrong? You've got responsibilities' he turned round And said leave me alone or I'll call the police' I then Said to the back of the girl 'do u realise he's got A child?' they both carried on walking away and I think I then said 'u should be ashAmed of yourself. You've got a child and responsibilities. They just kept walking away. Thankfully she wasn't that good looking otherwise I prob would hav been jealous. But I didn't feel jealous. I just saw him as a loser. Normally I put him on a pedestal and thing he's amazing, but today I felt like I was in control And he was this weak fool. Any thoughts? I had so wanted things to be different. I had hoped If I ever bumped into him he would see Charlotte and
Just adore her but instead this. Like an episode of eastenders. I'm worried in case I did something wrong. I think after that maybe I just want to hAve nothing to do with him At all. thanks 4 reason. Sorry so long. Xxx

 

[sweetlullaby]

Nice to see you again hun! lol

Its his loss hun and he was obviously embarrassed being with a new girlfriend.

Hope she dumps him for it

I would have done the same telling him off and saying to her did she know he has a child

though it must be so horrible to be completly cut off like that and then for him to actually say he'd call the police What a complete moron!

 

[shyfox1988]

awww hun its his loss hes the one loosing out on his lil girls life, hate guys like that dont deserve to be dads, you are the better person and im sure your doing a great job with her, shes absoloutly gorgeous xXx

 

[surprisebaby]

Thanks! He just seemed like a scared nasty little boy trying to scare me away. Wow it didn't work! After what he's put me through thats nothing. Oops I saw him just before he was going to his exam. It's awful I keep thinking of stuff I could have done or said to make him look bad. Like 'oh yeah and good luck for ur exam, don't want ur grades to suffer especially cos I want you to get a good job so more money from the csa. Or totally tell his girlfriend everything, the whole story. I sort of wish it had been face to face rather than them not facing me. Hes just such a coward. It felt good saying these things today. I probably shouldn't but i just couldn't help myself!

 

[Sandie_Cali]

He is just a scared loser who has no clue as to what he is missing. You did good.

 

[Kacie]

You're right, he is a complete coward! Don't worry about what you could have said.. what you said to him was perfect! Now, no matter what he's told the new gf about you, she wont be able to ignore what you said and how badly he reacted to it and he wont forget it either. I am sorry he can't face up to his responsibilities but you are all you little girl needs. Don't waste anymore time on him... you're a brilliant mum.

xxx

 

[lou_w34]

He is awful! An absolute coward!
I cant believe he ran away from her, did he even look at her?

Dont worry about him, you did the right thing, you are doing a great job without him!

xxx

 

[Kate&Lucas]

Good on you for saying something! Hopefull the new lass has seen him for what a prick he is, fancy just walking away like that

 

[18singlemom2b]

i plan on embaressing FOB like that if i ever run into him in public, with or without his girlfriend

 

[ProzacQueen]

well done girlie i bet he was mortified and she has the right hump now

hope he has fallen from that pedestal for good now? what a dick