saying goodbye

Kimiw

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Well, me and DH have decided that we have reached the end of our LTTTC journey. We have made the choice to live child free because after nearly 7 years we just can't afford anymore treatments, and we are just getting emotinally drained. I have one more round of clomid left, and we decided we will do this very last cycle and be done if it does not work.

I wish all of you the best in your TTC journey and I hope you all get your bfp's in the near future. As for DH and I, we have a long life with just us two and we are going to make the best of it. I want to thank all you ladies for all the support I have recieved here, and I will still come in from time to time to offer support. This is a very sad day for us :cry: but honestly, we just can't take it anymore.
 
:hug: oh my I'm heartbroken for you both! We all dread the day we have to make a decision like that but you both only know what is truly best for the both of you and your marriage. I hope and pray that one day it happens naturally all on its own when you least expect it. :hug:
 
your post has reduced me to tears, literally. The heartbreak of ttc is an overwhelming one. You are both very brave and i think quite strong for having to make such a hard decision. I wish you and your dh the absolute best for the future and hope you both enjoy all of the other wonderful things in life has to offer. :hugs:
 
I'm so very sorry :hugs:

Me and my dh have decided to give up after 6mc's in a row and it has been one of the hardest decisions to stop.

I wish you both well and I know the following days/months will be hard for you but I hope in time you will realise happiness again and that there is a life worth living. Giving you a massive hug right now :hugs: xx
 
So sorry you had to make this decision! Are you guys totally stopping, or letting things happen if they happen? I think you are very strong to make this decision! Best of luck to you!
 
Kimi, I feel so badly for you but I respect your decision to do what feels right. I'll miss seeing that lovely eye lol. Do pop back in and say hi. I wish you and your oh lots of peace and happiness. Maybe one day, during all the time you'll have loving each other, the miracle of creation will surprise you both. Sending you warm :hugs:
 
Ah Kimi. I don't know what to say... I know that's an ubelievably tough decision but I know you and your DH will go on to discover a post TTC life that is happy and full. I know I'll never be the same person I was before I started this and I'm sure you're the same... But if nothing else we have a deeper understanding of what life really is about. I wish you all the best. x
 
I think we are right there with you. There comes a time when you just gotta move on. It's as though I can't let go unless I say goodbye.

Onto bigger & better & things really do happen for a reason
 
I wish you and your DH all the best with your life. I respect you so much for making such a tough decision after so much heartbreak. I hope you both find peace and happiness :hugs:
 
I'm so sorry hun. I will keep you in my thoughts and send you loads of :dust:... who knows, i've heard many cases of ladies TTC for over 10 years and just as they give up they got their BFP! Either way. We love you and wish you the best :hugs:
 
So sorry to read this..its been a long time..im coming up on 6 years and 2013 is my last year xx i want my life back asap :-(
 
Sorry to here of your giving up.
You just never know once the presure is of you might just catch that once in a blue moon egg.
Good luck and best wishes for your future.
 

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