Scared and alone

[sjr1983]

Hi
I have just found this site and thought I would ask for some help. I have recently found out i'm pregnant even though the FOB is no longer around. I never thought I could get pregnant.
Now i'm deciding whether to go ahead or not!?!?
I'm scared as would have to do alone, I have a great support of friends - not yet told family!
I am also concerned about money as currently work full time and have never been on benefits so wouldn't know what is out there or not?
I also do not have my own place I rent a room so would defo have to move but no idea where!
So many factors but know that I have a week to make my mind up.
I was wondering if anyone else out there had been in this kind of position or have any advice or things they could say. I know it is my decision but i'm sure i'm not the only one out there? or am I?!

 

[moomin_troll]

As a forum who have many people that struggle to get pregnant this type of thread is frowned upon.
No one can tell u what to do, but clearly this is a single PARENT section and that means we have all gone through things differently but have our children.

Many women go through what you have, you're certainly not alone, but how u go ahead is ur choice and no one can advise u on that

 

[Proserpina]

Where are you from? Resources available to you could vary greatly depending on location.

 

[daneuse27]

I could never advise someone on an issue like this. Only you know what you truly want to do and what is right for you. We're also not really supposed to talk about 'termination' at this forum, as its offensive to those who try so hard to get pregnant for years and cannot. This is a mom forum, so its for moms, or those hoping to be moms.

I can tell you that my pregnancy was unplanned; I was living in a foreign country at the time, and FOB was also from another country. I had no job back home, no place of my own, and funds weren't amazing either. It seemed like a disaster at the time, but now I can't tell you how happy I am with my little girl. She's the best thing that has ever happened to me.