Megastar848
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I am 29 and my husband and I haven't officially TTC. We're in the - not trying but if we mess up the timing and it does happen it would be great. That being said, I am terrified of being infertile. I've had a gut feeling that I might have problems for most of my 20s...not really based on anything. I have regular periods - average cycle is 25 days. I have ovulation pain and regular CM during ovulation. I don't have evidence of any other hormone issues - I don't think. Other than a little stubborn acne that I could probably take better care of, I don't see any other red flags.
But I am obsessed with reading through blogs and infertility articles to figure out if there is any sign I might be infertile. It is just so heartbreaking to read some of the stories out there. And a friend of mine just had a baby after trying for 7 years. I'm about to get AF any minute but for the last 5 days my boobs have been abnormally sore and I didn't get the regular cramps I get. So I've wasted 3 days of my life searching early pregnancy symptoms and spent too much on pregnancy tests only to have them turn out negative - which shouldn't be a surprise because there is only a low probability I'm pregnant. I don't think I could go through this every month for a year only to discover something is wrong and then go through tests and hormones and do the 2 week wait every month.
I have so much admiration for women who manage a life and ttc because if the last 3 days are any indication - I will not be able to keep my job and maintain a life while thinking about ttc!! How do you not go crazy??
Anyway - I don't think any doc would do a test on me because of my age and without us trying for at least a year. Which I get - but is anyone else freaked out about this? What do you look for? Or do you just try for a year hoping? My concern is that my age is somewhat borderline -- if I wait a year I'll be into 30 and if you read some of the articles out there...my eggs are going to start jumping ship and dying off on my 30th birthday!
But I am obsessed with reading through blogs and infertility articles to figure out if there is any sign I might be infertile. It is just so heartbreaking to read some of the stories out there. And a friend of mine just had a baby after trying for 7 years. I'm about to get AF any minute but for the last 5 days my boobs have been abnormally sore and I didn't get the regular cramps I get. So I've wasted 3 days of my life searching early pregnancy symptoms and spent too much on pregnancy tests only to have them turn out negative - which shouldn't be a surprise because there is only a low probability I'm pregnant. I don't think I could go through this every month for a year only to discover something is wrong and then go through tests and hormones and do the 2 week wait every month.
I have so much admiration for women who manage a life and ttc because if the last 3 days are any indication - I will not be able to keep my job and maintain a life while thinking about ttc!! How do you not go crazy??
Anyway - I don't think any doc would do a test on me because of my age and without us trying for at least a year. Which I get - but is anyone else freaked out about this? What do you look for? Or do you just try for a year hoping? My concern is that my age is somewhat borderline -- if I wait a year I'll be into 30 and if you read some of the articles out there...my eggs are going to start jumping ship and dying off on my 30th birthday!