Scared. TTC #1 - strange goings on

BellyTheKid

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Okay folks. I'm new so hihihihi!
Little background. I'm 32 (33 next week) and DH is 40. This is child #1 for both of us. Guess you could say we're late bloomers. We've been TTC for 3 years. LMP was Dec 7th. Avg. cycle length is 31 days for years and I have never (read: NEVER) missed a period.
Today makes day #17 that AF is a no-show. So far I've had 3 negative hpts. Even used the first response kind. I'm nauseated in waves, have low stomach pain that isn't like AF cramps, mild back pain, some dizziness. All of these symptoms have been going on since before AF missed her big entrance.
Went today to have serum hcg level done at doc's office. I'm terrified of the results. Both DH and I want this so badly. The old clock is ticking louder than ever for both of us.
Has anyone ever had anything similar? Even if it didn't result in a bfp I would still like to know your experience. Tell me your story. :book:
 
Well that was horrible timing. Just got my serum hcg level back. At <2, I'm decidedly not preg.:nope: Next time maybe.
 
Just wanted to say welcome!! And I'm sorry the blood test didn't show a BFP for you :hugs: I think it's very possible stress and our mentality can really swing AF around a bit. I know in the past for me (before TTC) I would be really late or totally skip a period (or have it be super light) in times where I get stressed out. I do tend to be a very emotional very high-stress person so for me it's typical that things aren't 100% regular, but when you're used to that structure and your pattern shifts your mind starts to do this "What the..." mode and it's so frustrating. Anyway! Welcome and I hope you get your BFP soon!!!
 
Today is CD 55. I had a single streak of pink. The lightest pink you've ever seen and now it's gone. Nothing. I'm still having waves of nausea & low pelvic discomfort. I'm driving myself absolutely batty with reading about "cryptic pregnancies" and people who have had losses. I just want to know what's going on with my body. :shrug: DH and I are both in turmoil. This is too strange. I want to accept that AF is here and move on but my goodness, she keeps messing with me. :nope:
 
That is weird, weird, weird... did your OBGYN say anything? Have you mentioned it?
 

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