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[gemsio]

I lost my baby on christmas day, me and my husband have decided to try again, but I am so scared. I keep having nightmares of that day. I try to push it to the back of my mind because i am ready to try again, but the thought of that happening again just terrifies me.
Anyone else feeling like this after their first pregnancy ending in miscarriage?
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[superp123]

So far... every time. I think it's completely normal to be scared. It's one of those things in life that we have no control over. That alone, is terrifying for some. Just do the best you can hun, that's all you can do.
Lots of luck and sticky dust for you and I hope that you get that BFP very soon.
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[missy123]

i cant imagine how you feel as i have never lost a baby before but i was scared when i became pregnant thinking the same thing,its always at the back of any pregnant womans mind, every day is a blessing and life is so fragile my advise would be to try again and stay positive,i often think negative thoughts dont make things any easier...just harder.maybe you might need to talk to someone 1st or have a nice holiday with your OH to get your mind off things xxx good luck hun

 

[babytots]

hi hunni i'm sorry for your loss and i think its only natural to be scared i was when i started ttc after my 1st loss even more so after my 2nd loss. this time round i am terrified of getting pg again since we lost jessica so late on and she was a poorly baby. but i know i cant ever give up hope on having a healthy baby i've got 2 healthy girls so it can be done.

as hard as it is try and stay positivre. i really wish you all the luck in the world when ttc and you get your healthy baby. x

 

[LauniBug]

I understand how you feel and am in the same boat. I lost my baby at 12 weeks in January, and am now 5 weeks along and scared to death. I'm just praying to make it to 13 weeks so I can breath a little easier. Try not to stress about it since that never helps. (Easier said than done!) Good luck to you.

 

[Widger]

Oh yes. It is scary... I've recently started to ttc again and can't stop worrying. Sorry for your loss xx