School and Bump dont mix well...

[Lauren_16]

I shouldn't have even been in school
But I refuse to stay off until the last possible minute as I feel i have to be there for my drama class and our play for our exam.
So I only go in for drama, but the thing is, I really get pissed off that schoo dont offer mor esuppost and stuff for teenage parents.
They just shun them to one side...well at our school they do, and theres at least 4 of us (to my knowledge) who are expecting, poor Kirstie is only 13, and she gets picked on so bad, it wasnt even her fault, she got fuckin raped,
well, not by a stranger but she didnt give consent ¬_¬

Is it only my school that properr takes the piss outta young parents?
¬_¬

I hate men todayy
Im in a shit mood
And my ankles hurt

Fucking cant wait for the 13th March


But on a plus, me and Nicky are friends again and hes eventually decided to take responsibility and look after the baby when its born (took him long enough lol)

And eventually the names are rolling in
I quite fancy calling hi nicky tbh
but we'll see


xx

I just needed to let it out on here

 

[flowers123]

Sorry to hear about your school hun. Maybe you could start something yourself there. To raise awareness or something. Teenage pregnancies arent a joke as many people think they are. Theyre real and people need to know that! ESPECIALLY other teenagers. I remember I was in school a few weeks ago and this girl called jamie lynne spears a slut for being pregnant. I got SOOOOOOO mad with her, was proper yelling at her The girl who said it IS a slut though!!!! she has slept with so many guys... shes always coming in bragging about "last nights guy"

Im hating guys too Its ok, its understandable. I hate the guy I slept with for putting me through this.. he hasnt even asked. He didnt use contraception and hes 21. He should have know f***ing better. Thanks to him, im either pregnant or theres some other medical thing wrong with me! *******.

Anyway, I think youre so brave going to school hun. I really do. I couldnt go to school! Id have dropped straight out and gone into full time work. Its amazing that youre staying there, even if it is for drama. *hugs*
And I dont think your school is the only one like that. Mine is full of snobs
And nicky sounds like a nice name

Hope everything settles down for you
xxxx

 

[cupcake]

well done for going to school lauren, dont let anyone get you down. you just carry on its your future and you are being so responsible.

 

[clairebear]

dont let anyone get u down u sound strong enough to get over the huddles u go girl xxx

 

[xarlenex]

The only people who got pregnant while I was at school left. One other had an abortion and came back. They werent made leave or anything, just chose too.
I do think schools should have some kind of support system for young parents and parents to be though.

 

[maddiwatts19]

Hey hun!!.
First of all, good on you still going to school!. I think that shows how mature you are!. Most people would have dropped out, but i think that your showing that you want the best for your baby!.
I understand what you mean though. Some people got pregnant at my school, and people were such bitches to them!. But as i said to you, i think it just shows that your mature and responsible for wanting the best for your baby!.
Im in uni, and im worried how people are going to react!
Chin up, everything will work out for the best!!.

 

[Always&4ever]

Aww hun, don't let anyone put you down

 

[Angel]

Keep at it and don't give these small minded people another thought.
Goodluck

 

[Xbryoni&bumpX]

Maybe you could start something yourself there. To raise awareness

I think this is a great idea, you could help alot of other young mums and also ttc teens in your school that are going through the same thing you are who are just scared to do it themselves.
I think you are great for sticking out at school, and your school are not being good at not having some kind of support group or something just to help you and others like you, have you tried talking to anyone at school about this, and also do you have any school councellers there that maybe you could go and ask and they could maybe help you go about this.
Keep on in there, its hard but ur doing it and that has guts. xxxx

 

[Tilly]

I think it's great that you want to get to school! you sound very mature, and I agree.. you should consider raising awareness yourself.

Good luck.

 

[faith_may]

if you need to talk let me know

 

[leeanne]

You are doing a fabulous thing by staying in school. I remember back in my high school years there was a few who had abortions, and the comments made by others were horrible.

The school systems should really start being supportive as teenage pregnancy is a real thing. Without this support, many do drop out. I think education is very important for the young moms to enable a brighter future for their children.

 

[TashaAndBump]

In a way reading this, I'm kind of torn between being glad that I dropped out when I got pregnant, and disapointed that I didn't stick at it and get my qualifications!!

I do hope things look up for you soon. You could consider raising awareness like the others on here have suggested - maybe talk to your head of year about it - or you could just plod on, ignore everyone elses immature comments (they clearly have no idea about what maturity and responsibility is!) and get what you want to out of school while you're there.

Best of luck in your future (and in your drama play!) x

 

[Lauren_16]

Thanks for all the agreement and comments and stuff
I talked with the head master today (my head of year hates me lol, she tried to tell me off for wearing jogger bottoms instead of school pants today...how the hell im meant to close them over the bump i'll never understand) and he said that he's ging to have some words with tthe school nurse and get something sorted because he realises it is a growing 'problem' and some kind of support needs to be put in....and then he wanted to feel the baby kick =/
LOL

xxx

 

[Serene123]

Glad someones doing something about it!
x

 

[leeanne]

Thanks for all the agreement and comments and stuff
I talked with the head master today (my head of year hates me lol, she tried to tell me off for wearing jogger bottoms instead of school pants today...how the hell im meant to close them over the bump i'll never understand) and he said that he's ging to have some words with tthe school nurse and get something sorted because he realises it is a growing 'problem' and some kind of support needs to be put in....and then he wanted to feel the baby kick =/
LOL

xxx

ROFL!!!

I hope things improve in your school

 

[maddiwatts19]

Aww i'm glad your heads being supportive!! and hopefully things can get better from now on!

 

[TashaAndBump]

Yay, I'm glad you have someone else on-side at your school now. Hopefully things will improve!

 

[Tam]

Let's hope he is a man of his word!! Well done for continuing school hun, that is ace....and sorry you teen Mums to be are having such a shite time of it at your school! x