secret tips to help conception??

Hi ladies,

I just joined forum today, me and my husband are trying for our first child together, he has 2 from previous marriage, i have none as of yet hoping that will change soon :)

I was wondering if any of you could give me advice, i have been to doctors as we have tried for about 8months with no luck and the DR put me on microgynon 30 for 3 months and told me not to have sex at all during the 3months i have now came off half way through month 3 as it was making me really sick and break out in spots and extra weight etc... you know the drill.


So now im waiting for my fake period to come round as i was told i would have a sort of fake period once coming off the pill. we are going to start trying again once the fake period is ended.

So do any of you have any tips at all for me as i really want a child of my own. (although i love my husbands children like they are my own) its just not the same.


Sorry for rambling on.
 
I never had an orgasm during :sex: I could only have multiple times during Oral/foreplay. :blush::blush:
 
I was ttc for 14 long months. And the month I finally conceived i tried orgasming after DH. I read online somewhere it helps pull sperm closer....and we finally got our bfp the month of trying that. I figure cant hurt to try. I just got out my toys and went to town
:dust:

Lol ArmyWife1984, that's exactly what I have been doing, afterwards out comes the bullet!!

It's my first month of TTC and I am currently ovulating, so fingers crossed!!
 
hey gals :)
thot i'd throw my 2 cents in and let u kno that masturbating while doin doggy is a gauranteed big O, we've been tryin this to make sure the sperm are pulled in by the muscle contractions...here's hopin for a :bfp: :)
 
I was ttc for 14 long months. And the month I finally conceived i tried orgasming after DH. I read online somewhere it helps pull sperm closer....and we finally got our bfp the month of trying that. I figure cant hurt to try. I just got out my toys and went to town
:dust:

Lol ArmyWife1984, that's exactly what I have been doing, afterwards out comes the bullet!!

It's my first month of TTC and I am currently ovulating, so fingers crossed!!

Best of luck!! :dust:
 
I always see on tv and read on books that "lots of women never experience orgasm" and I never thought it was true!! :dohh:

OH is my only ever sexual partner and I must say I O almost every time now, the first year was awkward, because I wasn't very body confident. But off we went to Ann Summers one day, I almost died when I seen some of the things...

the lady asked "can I help you?" and I replied " I dunno can you? I need to have an orgasm!" :haha: We got lubes, rabbits, bullets, lingerie, oils, body-paint, nipple dust -you name it!!! Our bill was massive but our sex life is boomin!!

Once I got over the confidence issue it was a lot about communicating what is good for me and I guess letting go. As one poster said she cant handle how it feels. Just go with it. So whatever feels good.

Oh Girls, get to Ann Summers, get talking to your OH and GET ON TOP!!
 
Just to let you know spoke to GP today and she has given me folic acid to help things along also she has given me advice since i stopped taking pill after this bleed i have to wait until next one if i havent got BFP by then, i have to wait until im on cycle day 21 then i have to go in for blood tests, if they come back clear then OH has to go in for semen sample, so looks like things are starting to go well and DR is starting to pay more attention, also found out that previous doctor i seen should never have put me on mycrogynon since my cycles were regular every 28 days, so she is filing a complaint about the other doctor for me.... lets just hope things happen quickly if not then at least i now have a GP supporting me
 
Does anyone have any advice on 'extras' that help with TTC? I am tracking BBT, CM and OPK's but wondered is there anything else I can do? Like eat lots of carrots or something??! I eat healthily, exercise don't smoke, don't drink much.
We are BD'ing before and on O, I do a handstand afterwards for about 20 mins. I am trying to remain stress free and am repeating positive affirmations daily.

Any advice or tips would be appreciated.. Vitamin supplements/spells/diet.. Anything, however weird or wonderful? :wacko:

A handstand??!?! for 20 mins???! are u a gymnast lol
 
I only orgasm if dh fingers me and that's always before sex otherwise I use toys. I've never orgasmed during :sex:

I am the same way. I never O'd with any guy before my husband. Now I do orgasm but only when hes doing oral, never during :sex:. I think I am broken that way or something, lol. Sometimes I feel bad because hubbs feels inadequate, but its not him it just must be me. :shrug:. I heard about this orgasm trick and was like UGHH wont work for me because of the O issue. I tried a toy, that still doesnt do anything for me either.

:huh:
 

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