Seeing him alone

[Becky]

Luke has a new girlfriend (which is great because he is finally leaving me alone) he has also accepted that I will only let him have Jacob for a day and not overnight!

Do I have a right to say I dont want her to see him, I dont know the girl she could be a crack smoking alcholic for all I know and I dont want her to try and start playing mummy with my baby

Luke is hard enough to get on with at the best of times so I know he will kick up about this if I say no but I do feel strongly about it x

 

[Mummy&bump]

i asked a similar question about this 2 hun! theres nothing we can do about it i dont think! the only thing u cud do really wud b 2 ask him not 2 introduce her 2 the wee man until hes sure its serious maybe even ask if u cud meet her 2, ur aloud 2 b concerned i would be as well

xx

 

[captain-ally]

I think it's reasonable that you ask to meet her, if she's going to be there. It's possible that she's nice and her being there might put your mind at ease! I would ask, anyway.

 

[xarlenex]

When John started seeing someone I asked a few questions about her, but still asked him not to introduce them to each other until he was sure she'd be sticking around. Just as well as a week or 2 later and it was over. I'd bring it up to him, but do it so it doesnt sound like your trying to tell him what to do. I found this method went down the best way

 

[mz_jackie86]

I understand how u feel hun but maybe u shud see how it goes and actually meet her!
She could be a really nice person, and your wellw ithin your rights to know who your child is around! xx