jzgrace
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First of all just to give an idea of the relationship. My mom left my dad my twin brothers and I when I was two. So my father raised us. (And was an amazing father)
My mother went on to have two more children . Within the last 4 years (31 years after she left) ive been getting to know my mom and half sister. When I announced that I was getting married my mother said "you know your sister wants to be your maid of honor". So what could I do? I had to have her as maid of honor. Now that I am pregnant my mother says "you know who wants to be baby's God mother right? Your sister" ok this is where im getting annoyed. The girl is 30 years old, still lives with my mom, never had a job for more than a month, and refuses to work or go to school. Has my mom buy her EVERYTHING.And cant even take care of herself. So HOW on earth could she take on the responsibility if being a God mother to my child?? I am closer to my sil than to my half sister. And she is the one that I asked to be maid of honor and who I chose as God mother for my child. So now I have to tell my mother that my sister is just not the person who I would choose to take care of my children if (god forbid) anything happen to us. My mom and sister blow EVERYTHING out of proportion and take things WAY too personal. I dont know how to tell them. Any advice would be GREATLY appreciated!
My mother went on to have two more children . Within the last 4 years (31 years after she left) ive been getting to know my mom and half sister. When I announced that I was getting married my mother said "you know your sister wants to be your maid of honor". So what could I do? I had to have her as maid of honor. Now that I am pregnant my mother says "you know who wants to be baby's God mother right? Your sister" ok this is where im getting annoyed. The girl is 30 years old, still lives with my mom, never had a job for more than a month, and refuses to work or go to school. Has my mom buy her EVERYTHING.And cant even take care of herself. So HOW on earth could she take on the responsibility if being a God mother to my child?? I am closer to my sil than to my half sister. And she is the one that I asked to be maid of honor and who I chose as God mother for my child. So now I have to tell my mother that my sister is just not the person who I would choose to take care of my children if (god forbid) anything happen to us. My mom and sister blow EVERYTHING out of proportion and take things WAY too personal. I dont know how to tell them. Any advice would be GREATLY appreciated!