Sex drive is back, just 5 days after C!

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So prolly a bit tmi...

... but after only 5 days after my C sect, I just want to rape my dh! Lol!


My first C, we actually tried to dtd for the first time 8 days after surgery. He wasn't able to penetrate fully, as i was a bit sore. He still made me o though. 6 days after, was 2 wk mark, and we dtd normally, with minimal discomfort.

I know it's recommended to wait 6 wks, but no way we could wait! Even after dtd that soon, i was still told i had minimal scarring inside and out, and a slight adhesion, but because of the end of this pregnancy. So dtd didnt affect me at all besides the obv uterine discomfort.

Yesterday while showering, just talking about my boobs getting big got dh excited! I couldn't help but touch him, and not wanting to get him worked up without him finishing, well... I did :) but i also had it against me, and was driving me crazy too! Ugh!!!

The dc said my insiscion looked great from day 1, even til the day i left the hosp. I also had an umbilical hernia repair, so i have been extra careful with everything. I know i should wait, and want to.. And at least 2 wks. My appointment is in 22 more days, and would be cleared for sex if he says so then, which would still be 4 wks vs 6, but ugh!! How am i gonna even handle it without for 2 wks! Lol!

I can't believe dh is still even into me like this so soon after surgery, my bits were swollen, finally went down. My legs and ankles still are, my breast are big ya, but hard as rocks from my milk filling in! Although i haven't leaked at all, i was worried he wouldnt even want to touch them fearing he would make them! My stomach still has a ways to go down.. With all this, he says his drive is coming back full force cause he knows now the baby is out it will be "game on"!
 
I was never told to wait to DTD, and my sex drive was also back pretty quickly (because I had been SO sexually frustrated in the last few months of the pregnancy). We DTD at 3 weeks PP carefully, because my incision was still really sore, but otherwise didn't have any problem.
 
With my last c-section we waited 2 weeks exactly. There were no problems but he took it REALLY easy on me as I was still in a lot of pain.
 
We waited 2 weeks after emergency c section - as someone else said DH took it very easy as i was still in a lot of pain but def up for it lol!x
 
2 wks 1 day now.

10 days pp, dh and i were fooling around on the couch. Started innocently cuddling :) he made me o, but no penetration. No pain from that at all.

Probably would of tried yesterday full on,but after 2 1/2 days of no bleeding, i ended up leaking quite a bit :( today it's been minimal spotting. I'm pent up again, but having not done it "normally" since before the baby was born, well i'm still frustrated!! Really hope the personal issues we've been dealing with don't get in the way of things as tonight i just want to do my dh, lol!
 
We had sex 3 weeks after my section, all was fine BUT we forgot to use birth control as we were so used to not using any.
Can you imagine how mortified I was going for morning after pill with a 3 week old baby!!!
 

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