I don't really know where to post this and don't want to talk to any of my friends about this so here goes
Bf and I are together almost 5 years, bought a house, have a puppy and are Ttc. We are generally very happy together. He has always wanted to have sex less then I have and I'm usually pretty okay with that. He also a little more vanilla then I am, which I can deal with.
A little while ago, I looked at a text conversation from his bet friend(yes I know I shouldn't have) and saw that his best friend constantly sends him pictures of half naked and naked girls. Some his best frien knows and some are just from the Internet. I also saw that they were both writing really crude things about what they wanted to do to the women as well.
We have had a really difficult year (nothing to do with is, in fact the things that happened made us want the house and baby together) and I have definitely gained some weight. I have never been small, but have always been considered quite attractive. He has never said those types of things to me, nothing even close. Seeing those pictures and the conversation between them has made me feel really insecure and disrespected.
Am I being sensitive or is this something I should be worried about?
I know men look at other women all the time, I guess it's the things he says that bugs me is the things he writes. Things he has never said about or to me
Bf and I are together almost 5 years, bought a house, have a puppy and are Ttc. We are generally very happy together. He has always wanted to have sex less then I have and I'm usually pretty okay with that. He also a little more vanilla then I am, which I can deal with.
A little while ago, I looked at a text conversation from his bet friend(yes I know I shouldn't have) and saw that his best friend constantly sends him pictures of half naked and naked girls. Some his best frien knows and some are just from the Internet. I also saw that they were both writing really crude things about what they wanted to do to the women as well.
We have had a really difficult year (nothing to do with is, in fact the things that happened made us want the house and baby together) and I have definitely gained some weight. I have never been small, but have always been considered quite attractive. He has never said those types of things to me, nothing even close. Seeing those pictures and the conversation between them has made me feel really insecure and disrespected.
Am I being sensitive or is this something I should be worried about?
I know men look at other women all the time, I guess it's the things he says that bugs me is the things he writes. Things he has never said about or to me