Sex question, (tmi)

[stenny29]

Hi

Was just reading up there on oral sex when ttc.
I know saliva kills sperm to an extent but do you think it would be
ok to have oral sex before penetration?
Surely after 10/15 mins of penetration the saliva would be gone?? x

 

[LoolaBear]

i know of quite a few people who have gone on to have a after oral.

as you say it kills them off to a certain extent but sometimes not all get killed off. all i would say is to just not do oral every other time you have cos then it would give some :sperm: a chance of not having to fight through the saliva. xx

 

[stenny29]

Thanks hun
Oral is a big part of our sex life and I suppose your right, it probably wouldn't kill us to stop having oral for a couple of days during the Ov x
We have been trying so hard not to mention anything ttc like during sex and just have fun, don't want to make it a chore, lol x
I will have to jump on him before he gets the chance to venture down there, lol x

 

[Louppey]

Me & DH have oral sex every time before sex and we just got BFP so who knows?

 

[stenny29]

So do we but hubby did suggest that we could use "pre-seed" for the couple of days during ov instead of oral but i don't want to be too wet down there during (tmi) if that makes sense?
I am 4 dpo and did have oral during Ov this time so we will see in a week or so x x

 

[LoolaBear]

pouncing on him will work wonders! makes it more spontaneous also he wont know whats going on so as you say wont get the chance to travel south!

fingers crossed and hope this is your month xx

 

[Lucina]

I didnt know this! Anybody know how it affects the sperm though?

 

[stenny29]

That's what I will do next cycle (hopefully won't need too!!)
Might buy some new sexy undies and just go for it, lol x
It can be hard trying to be spontanious as we have a 4 year old and we both work unsociable hours. This is cycle 5 for us now and really hope it is our month!! I have read morning sex can be better too so will take wee one to nursery then try and be seductive, lol sometimes a cuppa and This Morning sounds more appealing x x

 

[schnoodle]

i didnt know this!! x

 

[snl41296]

Me & DH have oral sex every time before sex. I dont think it will harm anything