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Discussion in 'Postnatal Support' started by sweetsammi, Dec 13, 2007.

  1. sweetsammi

    sweetsammi 1st time mummy and WTT

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    Does it hurt?? Not that i'm planning on doing it until after my 6wk check-up or probably even longer, but i just wondered. I'm really worried about doing it again for the first time after giving birth.. The thought alone scares me! lol x
     
  2. Tilly

    Tilly Guest

    Ouch, I didn't even think about it for a while. It was a bit painful at first but just make sure you've healed properly etc! I knew when I was ready because I would have a check when I was in the bath (when I could wash the area properly and it felt normal again, it was the right time). I wouldn't rush if it I were you though.
     
  3. Jo

    Jo I'm an old bag!

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    I would say just go very carefully and very slowly, if it hurts or is sore in anyway stop and try again later
    it all takes time hun
     
  4. mickey

    mickey Well-Known Member

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    I am a little bit nervous 'bout this as well!

    reminds me of the nervousness I had when it happenend the very first time.

    I read possibly it will be more dry straight after giving birth, so def slowly, slowly mate, when I will try for the first time after birth :baby:
     
  5. Tam

    Tam Mum of 2 - PG with No.3

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    After having Jade, I was so bad down below it was not on the menu for months and months......after Alfie we did have sex after 3 weeks I think :blush: but we just took it very slowly and very gentle!

    It took a while before things were back to normal as it is something I found you had to ease yourself back into slowly.
     

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