You women are just amazing. Lizzie, THANK YOU. Also, no need to apologize that my questions got lost in the shuffle in the other thread... I knew it was fast moving and it was hard for me to keep up with

- which is why I joined this smaller one
You ladies are just so knowledgeable and it helps to hear your perspective.
I will make my story short - as I don't want to make this thread all about me!! haha

I know we are all here to support one another.
With DD I had my gender scan at about 19 weeks and they didn't mention anything about my cervix (if it had shortened, it wasn't enough to to tell me)

but I was asked to come back for another scan at 28 weeks because of another issue (placenta being too close to cervix, which ended up being fine). It was at 28 weeks that they noticed a shortened cervix (forgive me, I don't remember the length... under 2 cm) and funneling. The doctor was most concerned about the funneling. They put me on "modified" bed rest and told me to come back in a week. The cervix shortened some more, but not much, and the funneling continued to worry them. At this point they took "modified" out of it and put me on strict bed rest, except to come in and be monitored every week. At 37 weeks I delivered my daughter. (thanks to my waters breaking which I am sure is because of the funneling).
They were more concerned about the funneling the entire time and only a little concerned about the shortening.

The term IC was thrown around, but I got the impression they weren't 100% sure what was going on.
This pregnancy I explained up above in this thread.... they monitored me up to about 20 weeks and everything looked good. But, it sounds eerily familiar to my last pregnancy.
I don't know if it is "officially" IC if it has happened later in pregnancy for me than for most women???? Maybe the funneling/short cervix WAS a random thing for me?

Wishful thinking, I guess.
So, I have not been resting this time around, they told me I didn't have to. And with a toddler, bed rest hasn't been an option yet. I will probably live to regret this... but my doctor seemed convinced that everything was fine and I could live my normal life.
SORRY FOR SUCH A LONG POST!!!!! This might be the first time I have written my entire story down!!