sick of the constant stress

[Aidan's Mummy]

So Aidan's dad is constantly throwing thing after thing at me. When we first split he asked for a DNA test and then said no he believed aidan was his. Now he has turned round and says aidan looks like my ex. He is also saying that Aidan was 2 weeks overdue and that means he was due in november. No he was born at 41 weeks and he was due on the 4th December. I'm sick of it . There is no doubt in my mind that aidan is his, he just seems set on hurting me x

 

[jessrabbit]

tricky one, only way to settle it is a DNA to shut him up. You know the truth so its about time he did. Is his name already on the birth cert?

 

[kirst1805]

Aww hun, He really does sound like a complete idiot.. He's just trying to hurt you in the only way he really can. Please try not to let him manage it, you know Aidan is his.. If he wants to act like a child and throw his toys out the pram let him.. Just walk away.

You don't have to listen to that rubbish, the stress will do you no good.

Prob a useless post but didn't want to read and run.

xxx

 

[Aidan's Mummy]

Thanks ladies and yes his name is on the birth certificate x

 

[JA1988]

Just tell him if he wants to keep mentioning it, he can arrange a DNA test as you have nothing to hide, otherwise he can shut it!! I know what you mean about the constant stress, FOB has put me through DNA tests, chasing him for maintenance, huge solicitors bills thanks to his stupid little strops and then a court case which he has now decided to appeal the decision of. I just try my best to reassure myself I have done nothing wrong so have nothing to worry about or hide and eventually the legal system will put a stop to his ridiculous strops as he can't keep making applications!!!

Try and relax hun and if needs be, limit the contact you have between him just to email or text or something. xx

 

[jessrabbit]

I agree with JA1988 give him the ultimatum, take the test or shut up! xxxx

 

[Laura2919]

How are things going hun? I see your pregnant, congratulations

I would just do a DNA test, that will shut him up for good then and you wont have to feel like your banging your head against a brick wall.

 

[Aidan's Mummy]

Things are ok thanks hun. Just sick of aidans dad causing trouble tbh x

 

[Snowball]

I actually hate men

 

[sweetlullaby]

hun, they really do know how to get at us

 

[teal]

massive hugs xx

 

[cluelessnow]

Big hugs

He's an id!ot. Don't let him get to you. Do the test and shut him up once and for all. Look after yourself.

 

[SilasLove]

It's obvious he really doesn't believe LO isn't his as it's been 2 yrs and he hasn't gone and gotten a DNA test himself. So therefore he is just out to hurt you. Tell him to take his insecurities and BS somewhere else and when he has decided to grow the heck up to give you a call then.

 

[Novbaby08]

idk I'd tell him to fuck off and think what he wants. Guys are completely ********. Its like their brains cant process that hes part of it. Also Aidan looks like you, and moron that has seen pics can see Aidan is a little boy version of you

 

[Novbaby08]

i can write fuck but not re tard ed