Maybe you could remind your Grans about the fact that at a homebirth you get the full attention of 2 MW's and I guess it depends on where you live but I've heard that if you get transferred by ambulance you'd be in surgery quicker than being transferred between wards. Compare that to what I was reading on the independent online at the weekend about how some hospitals have had as few as 3 onward MW's to 40 women (i'm guessing that's after birth tho, I can't remember) and that according to the RCM there's a shortfall of over 4,000 midwives in the country. I'm not great at remembering facts and stuff but sure you could find the article. I personally feel way safer about homebirth than I do hospitals x