single mom, 31 weeks pregnant and stressed as ever!!!

[darsilver1]

I am just venting because I guess that is all I can really do at this moment...I am currently 31 weeks 5 days pregnant with a baby girl...I have a 5 yr old son from a previous relationship. I am so stressed during this pregnancy. Father of son doesnt pay child support and isnt involved in son life...I am having financial issues (filing bankruptcy) and losing all my possessions, I cant work a job because I am on mandatory bedrest, living with my mom and dad and they have drama from left to right, my son is driving me crazy because he is going through this stage where he wants to defy authority...My LO father decided after I broke up with him due him being controlling, that he is suddenly is not the father of LO and he refuses to help me prepare for LO so I am doing it all on my own but yet he wants to be at delivery of LO and I dont really feel like seeing his face while I am in labor....on top of it, I have a pregnancy that has been so exhausting with the baby having IUGR and AEDF (absent end diastolic flow). I just wish i could curl under a rock and shut the world away...I am now doing counseling because I have so much anger and depression from all that I have been through...I have no patience anymore, I totally hate men and I vow to never ever let myself go through this bullcrap again...

 

[kirst1805]

hun, sorry you are going through all this. We are always here if you need a rant and let off some steam.

Regarding FOB, if you don't want him at the birth, let the hospital know at the time or just don't tell him until after. He can't expect to deny LO one min and then expect to be there the next.

xxx

 

[darsilver1]

hun, sorry you are going through all this. We are always here if you need a rant and let off some steam.

Regarding FOB, if you don't want him at the birth, let the hospital know at the time or just don't tell him until after. He can't expect to deny LO one min and then expect to be there the next.

xxx

Yeah, I plan on telling him after LO is born...I have the upper advantage by living 8 hrs away from him... I really dont want him at delivery because he bashed my family and talked all sort of crap about my mom...I dont want my family feeling uncomfortable when he is around...what makes me so pissed off is that he is a cop. He should know better than to act as he does...He is also older, much older than me, like 7 yrs older and I thought he was mature...I definitely will not allow him to be a yo-yo in LO life. The upside is once I have LO, I should definitely be able to go back to work and pick up the mess I made in my life. I have great education and work history so I guess that is a good thing...I appreciate you reading and not running away...

 

[kirst1805]

don't be daft hun.. i very rarely run away.

Its as if they get more childish as they get older to me.. thats my opinion anyway.

xx