single mommy to be

[Alizaeh]

Hello there, well Im 19 years old and just a couple of months ago i found out i was pregnat by my now ex boyfriend, since then we kept having problems and well he has another girl pregnant.. two months ago we broke up and he's the type of guy thats not responsible he's into cars and tattoos and does not care about my baby, he's back with his other girl so basically I'm on my own with a baby girl on the way.. I'm scared of being a single mom i do not know what to do or who to turn to even tho i have my parents support i feel down all the time and i hide it all the time i try to make people believe im happy and that nothing is wrong when in reality i feel like my whole world is crashing down around me

 

[lil lovey]

:wave:hi girl. I'm lovey. I'm also a single mommy to be. I also used to feel like that at the beginning I'm sorry you going through this. Give it some time it will settle in. Its good to have your family by your side. You might not know it right now but you'll be a great single mommy. Who knows maybe your ex will come around and help you. Everything happens for a reason, maybe its best his out of your life and baby girl

 

[Alizaeh]

:wave:hi girl. I'm lovey. I'm also a single mommy to be. I also used to feel like that at the beginning I'm sorry you going through this. Give it some time it will settle in. Its good to have your family by your side. You might not know it right now but you'll be a great single mommy. Who knows maybe your ex will come around and help you. Everything happens for a reason, maybe its best his out of your life and baby girl

Hi lovey
are you gonna be a single mommy too? thats nice at least understand my situation.. i feel not trapped but idk what to do, its hard to think about all the things ive done and now my babys gonna grow without a dad and i really doubt it his girl is three months ahead of me so shes almost due its just sad how he doesnt care and thank you i hope i am and i bet youre gonna be a great mom as well

 

[lil lovey]

:wave:hi girl. I'm lovey. I'm also a single mommy to be. I also used to feel like that at the beginning I'm sorry you going through this. Give it some time it will settle in. Its good to have your family by your side. You might not know it right now but you'll be a great single mommy. Who knows maybe your ex will come around and help you. Everything happens for a reason, maybe its best his out of your life and baby girl

Hi lovey
are you gonna be a single mommy too? thats nice at least understand my situation.. i feel not trapped but idk what to do, its hard to think about all the things ive done and now my babys gonna grow without a dad and i really doubt it his girl is three months ahead of me so shes almost due its just sad how he doesnt care and thank you i hope i am and i bet youre gonna be a great mom as well

Yes I will be and I'm glad but FOB is trying his best to be supportive. Try not to freak out stay strong. Take one step at a time. How far along are you?l

 

[lil lovey]

It also used to get me thinking that my son won't have his father around which scared me so much.. I was so stressed out when it really dawned on me that I'm going to be a single mother. Used to always cry myself to sleep..did you date him after she was pregnant?

 

[Alizaeh]

It also used to get me thinking that my son won't have his father around which scared me so much.. I was so stressed out when it really dawned on me that I'm going to be a single mother. Used to always cry myself to sleep..did you date him after she was pregnant?

Its scary huh to think about being a single mom and getting no help from the father of your child but then again u cant forced someone to be there if they dont want to and im 24 weeks now and i did for like a month but he would lie to me alot so i let that go cuz i was just stressing out :/

 

[kimberleyrobx]

Hello! i am kimberley, i have a partner although i cant tell you the amount of times ive kicked him out for 'not doing it right' or 'doing anything at all'! sometimes i have my days where i wish i wasnt in a relationship, simply because i love things to be MY WAY and he is the total opposite, he is such a slob whereas i am quite OCD! once your baby is born, you'll feel like you have not lived! i couldnt tell you what real love was until i had my girl, i thought i knew love, but my heart actually ached with joy whenever i saw her tiny hands and feet! you will love motherhood, and at least you dont have a man telling you what to do or telling you how to do things lol! x

 

[jozylynn896]

Hi there
Congrats on your baby! How far along are you? I'm 23 weeks with a little boy
I'm still with my boyfriend. Sometimes I feel like he's gonna leave and oi used to get so stressed over it. Crying myself to sleep everynight. Just thinking the worst. But now we're still together. And when I feel like he's gonna leave me, I am ni longer afraid to be a single mom. I mean, its a scary thought. But I know that I'm gonna have a little boy whose never gonna leave me!
My mom was a single mom and she brought up 4 girls on her own!
Sure she fucks up a lot, but we still really appreciate her.


I'm not scared of being a single mum but I am scared of losing my OH. I know he won't leave, but if he did I'd be devastated.

 

[little_lissy]

Hey- I'm Cecily. I'm a single mum to be as well. FOB is not coming near her- wont bore you with the story here but I know for a fact she is going to have a much better life just us two.

I'm happy for you that you have your parents support. Mine weren't at first but because of the way they treated me when I told them they are not coming near my daughter.

Why do you feel your world is crashing down on you? Just because you are going to have this beautiful little miracle soon doesn't mean you can't pursue other interests- I will be continuing to work and I will be going back to college in 2014, maybe even next year if I can save enough money.

Please PM me if you would like a chat. Your not alone

 

[nicoleJOLIE]

long story short , my daughters biological father was kicked to the curb when i was 3months and i was a single mother to be until her REAL father came in the picture when i was 6 months . i kinda enjoyed the whole single mom thing cus idid things my way and no one could tell me diffeerently , i picked the name i picked the place i picked the time , everything lol . its hard work for one person but its just as hard work for two , and atleast he wont be ther eand just sitaround and do nothing - that would REALLLY piss you off . but i wish you the best of luck , im a single mom all week until i bring Cianna to her dads on the weekends , it takes alot of patience but it can be done

 

[Alizaeh]

Yes I will be and I'm glad but FOB is trying his best to be supportive. Try not to freak out stay strong. Take one step at a time. How far along are you?l

Im 23 almost 24 weeks and thank yu so much Im glad i found this chat, i feel so relieved now

 

[Alizaeh]

Hello! i am kimberley, i have a partner although i cant tell you the amount of times ive kicked him out for 'not doing it right' or 'doing anything at all'! sometimes i have my days where i wish i wasnt in a relationship, simply because i love things to be MY WAY and he is the total opposite, he is such a slob whereas i am quite OCD! once your baby is born, you'll feel like you have not lived! i couldnt tell you what real love was until i had my girl, i thought i knew love, but my heart actually ached with joy whenever i saw her tiny hands and feet! you will love motherhood, and at least you dont have a man telling you what to do or telling you how to do things lol! x

Im glad hes not on the pic sometimes because hes so immature he doesnt even know what he wants in life and yes he would tell me what to do or how to do things and i was wroking and going to school full time and i didnt depend on anyone thats why i kinda know hes not for me i dont like people like that

 

[Alizaeh]

Hey- I'm Cecily. I'm a single mum to be as well. FOB is not coming near her- wont bore you with the story here but I know for a fact she is going to have a much better life just us two.

I'm happy for you that you have your parents support. Mine weren't at first but because of the way they treated me when I told them they are not coming near my daughter.

Why do you feel your world is crashing down on you? Just because you are going to have this beautiful little miracle soon doesn't mean you can't pursue other interests- I will be continuing to work and I will be going back to college in 2014, maybe even next year if I can save enough money.

Please PM me if you would like a chat. Your not alone

Im 23 almos 24 weeks with a baby girl! i say our babies should meet lol my due date is April 9 Im so happy now and its kinda hard to do it on my own because you know emotionally u need someone there sometimes but eh i know ill do just fine

 

[Alizaeh]

long story short , my daughters biological father was kicked to the curb when i was 3months and i was a single mother to be until her REAL father came in the picture when i was 6 months . i kinda enjoyed the whole single mom thing cus idid things my way and no one could tell me diffeerently , i picked the name i picked the place i picked the time , everything lol . its hard work for one person but its just as hard work for two , and atleast he wont be ther eand just sitaround and do nothing - that would REALLLY piss you off . but i wish you the best of luck , im a single mom all week until i bring Cianna to her dads on the weekends , it takes alot of patience but it can be done

Is it hard being a single mom? Like im scared of not being a good mom and well i know imma have to play the daddy role as well, im not looking for a guy or anything i think im better off alone

 

[3xpire]

Im in the exact same position as you, even same age. It took a lot for me to gain my confidence in knowing that I can do this by myself. At one point, I actually reached such a low that I considered abortion or adoption, and I hated myself. But then I had it slapped into me by my best friend, that a lot of women go through this. And a lot of women have to face that they need to raise a baby on their own. The best advice that I can give, and this is what's getting me through it, is that yes, you have parents, family, friends, and they will all be VERY willing to help you out with whatever you need. Remember that. And it takes some self confidence and self pep talks to remember that any guy like that, you do not want around your child anyways. Sure, this baby may share his DNA, but it does not make him a father. There are several state benefits and programs to help mothers in our situation, and even though you may be scared now or feel down, trust me, it will get a LOT better. You are definetly strong enough, and know that you are NEVER alone. Just take a few moments out of each day to remember that you're going to make a great mom. Start getting active in going baby shopping or window shopping with friends, and it definetly gets you more excited. Things will look up Here if you need me.