Single mums to be?

[katiefx]

Any other single mums to be here? Just wondering as I see so many threads about the FOB that it made me wonder how many single girlies are on here. I'm a single mum to be, and the FOB is having nothing to do with the baby (his own choice).

Also, how do you feel about becomming a single mum? So many people view it as a bad thing. I feel quite relieved to be rid of the stress that I know my FOB would have put me under during the pregnancy!

 

[MUM0FTW0]

I was a single mom with my son until I met OH...so I give you

 

[fl00b]

i'm gonna be a single mom i'd rather be one than be stuck with FOB cos of how stressful the relationship was! it's gonna be hard but meh, in my eyes it'd be even harder staying with him!

 

[Ayannaplus1]

Well I am not fully a single parent because FOB will be in my daughter's life but financially he won't be much help and me and him are not together so she will be with me and he will come to visit her whenever he can. So I still can relate with you I'm not too worried about being a single parent because I have so much support from my family and I know that not having him there will make me work ten times harder to get me and my daughter to a better life

 

[Jennaxo]

Single mummy here, although FOB does still want to be involved. I'm actually quite relieved tbh, FOB has bipolar so I don't think I'd been able to have looked after him aswell as LO. Plus means I just get bubba more to myself and I can really focus on what's best for him. Wouldn't change my situation at all.

 

[Aisy_Baybee]

im single mumma and proud! im not bothered hes not there for us, its his loss and we will be just fine without him. I cared at the start but the more i went on i realised what an asshole he is for leaving me go through this all alone! well not alone i guess as i have an amazing family and friends.. thats a pretty big chunk of the battle Im excited for what motherhoods going to make me, i will do my best even though i know it will be hard!!!

 

[21mummy2be]

I'm gona be a single mummy. FOB thinks uni is more important than raising his child! I was upset about it at first but now I'm relieved I get to make all the decisions on my own. I live with my dad and my mum lives nearby too so I'm sure I'll have plenty of support

 

[Abby_]

I'm a single mummy. I didn't know FOB for that long, so he buggered off. I still live at home, but I don't get that much help from my parents. It is really tough being a single parent, but it can be done! As long as you surround yourself with people who support you, you'll be fine.

 

[leoniebabey]

I am, I wasn't with LO untill he was 3 months olds but this time i'm single all the way. ps. i added you on fb
x

 

[MumToBe2012]

I will be But FOB will be involved (though he's not really much help atm as he hasn't helped me pay for anything )

 

[Mickey1994]

I'm going to be a single mommy. FOB is still going to be involved in LO's life, but he lives about a hour away so I'll be doing it alone for the most part.

 

[katiefx]

I didn't realise there were so many of us on here It's good knowing I'm not the only one! I guess being a single mum is harder than doing it as a couple, but so many girls do it nowaways so it can be done

 

[Droplette]

I'm going to be a single mom. FOB is in jail on domestic violence charges for hitting me. I'm glad he won't be around me or my daughter.

 

[MUM0FTW0]

I'm going to be a single mom. FOB is in jail on domestic violence charges for hitting me. I'm glad he won't be around me or my daughter.

I was scanning through here again and saw this,and im really sorry to hear that you had to go through that

 

[roisinMegan11]

see it seems here that most men are crap, the fob in my situation is a control freak and a bit of a psycho and i wish he didn't want anything to do with the baby as it'd be a lot easier! But i will get my little boy all to myself most of the time which makes me very happy my mom was a single mom and me and her have the best relationship ever so hopefully although it's a boy me and my son will have a better bond because of it, good luck everyone it won't be easy!

 

[MommaAlexis]

*raises hand*
I don't know, my entire relationship is gone but I can handle it. One day at a time

 

[kaylacrouch93]

i'm gonna be a single mom i'd rather be one than be stuck with FOB cos of how stressful the relationship was! it's gonna be hard but meh, in my eyes it'd be even harder staying with him!

I know how that feels thats how my relationship was.. he almost made me lose my baby 2 times. but now im living wit my mother nd me and my lil one are fine