Small Rant

[mayb_baby]

OH/FOB wateva I no longer care he’s doing my head in, we are ‘together’ however I was annoyed today as he’s adapted such a backseat role in my pregnancy. I mean my mum has bought sooo much for our son and our home and he thinks he deserves soo much praise for forking out money for a toaster, kettle, microwave and his son’s mosses basket.

I have no money for 3 weeks as I can’t claim benefits until then and he earns £300 a week, he’s annoyed his bank balance has fallen under £2000 now and he wants to build it up before he buys anymore and he knows we need a deposit down £400 on our home in the next 2weeks and I have nothing!

To add to this he has been adding girls he used to flirt with on FB and has nothing up about me or his son not even a comment on his sons scan pics, I asked was he ashamed of us and he laughed telling me not to be silly. He changed his FB password so I can’t go on his anymore, if I lift his mobile he gets all defensive ‘grabs’ it back and says I have to trust him. He goes out not often but he does with ‘the boys’ who are all single and he lies about the people who get the busses he gets to nightclubs, now a night club text him saying he’s entered in a draw and he swares blind ‘I never gave my num out.’

I'm beyond fed up and I want to end this I ‘know’ it’s going up in smoke and he just comments with ‘stop stressing you and the baby out.’ All my fault Im stressed

I love him and its upsetting

Thanks for reading and all opinions welcome xxxx

 

[Tanara]

Maybe just end it? honestly he doesn't sound like he wants to be bothered at the moment, trust me if you end it he will realize your serious and hopefully change.

It sounds like he thinks he can still go out and be a kid, which isn't the fact anymore since he is no longer the kid hes the parent.

Hope things work out for you xx

 

[SarahhhLouise]

yeah hun, i would just end it too, its better for you to be happy than to be stressed all the time, you will be alot better out of it, my ex used to be like that with his phone and bebo and facebook, kinda different as we werent having a baby together but in the end i had to get out as it was turning me into a crazy person, xx

 

[mayb_baby]

I feel like one atm as I want it to work and he just seems to make it so hard xx

 

[Srrme]

I agree with the other gals, hun.

 

[mumj18]

This probably isn't what you want to hear but it might be best just to end it. Would your parents let you stay there now and when bubs is born? You don't need the stress of this guy at all right now! I'm in a similar situation with my OH he does not seem to care about the baby that's growing inside me at all and we fight a lot. I hope everything works out for you xx

 

[Hotbump]

Men! You dont need any stress right now hun but only you know whats best. Good luck.