So angry at OH

[xkissyx]

i am so sos angry right now my oh is really gettin on my nerves.. he asks me a queston n then when i goto answer he tells me to shush n puts his hand in the way how rude!!

and then he declares he isn't goin to give me a baby and is tryin to mess things up and all because his ex won't let him have access to his other 2 children!! oh and he then says that i only want him for a sperm doner the cheek of him i fell so allover the place atm ...

he seems to forget that i gave up a job, friends and family and everything i've ever known to move 40 miles away to be with him ...

i really do feel like just giving in ... the other day he threatened to throw my clomid away

 

[jelliebabie]

aww. Am sorry ur having a hard time! He sounds very insensative to me, but maybe all the stress of ttc is getin to him, to u both. Sounds like hes feeling insecure too. Maybe a good time to sit down and have a good heart to heart calmly. Its also not healthy to give up so much for anyone and u mite be feeling a little isolated. The last thing u need ttc is stress so try to sort it out hun. Hugs to u. I hope everything gets soqted for u x

 

[sparkle83]

I totally agree. you need to know whether this is all said from frustration, or if he genuinely doesnt want to have another chld atm *hugs*

 

[MillieMoo]

Oh my god, i'm so sorry you have to put up with this. Even if he is just saying it from frustration that's not an excuse to say such hurtful things!

You really need to sit him down and have a talk with him to find out what he really wants. This is such a serious thing (bringing a child into the world) and it shouldn't be taken lightly!

When anyone goes through this you need some support from your loved ones. You should go through these things together and give each other strength.

I really hope you can work things out with him!

 

[Pyrrhic]

Sounds like you and your OH need to have a serious talk, and sit down and decide whether or not you both want a child. Better to find out now than further down the road.

 

[xkissyx]

thanks for the support ladies xx we had a big talk today he appologised for his wrong doings and said that everything just kind of got on top of him and he agree's to try his best to be there for me in future ...

he also said when times get hard for him he forgets to think how i'm feeling i then went on to explain that everyone feels stressed at times even fustrated but taking it all out on me isn't going to help us as he's just making me feel bad ...

he seems to have understood and has promised that things will never be like they were throughout the week xx

 

[jelliebabie]

aww. Am glad u have sorted things. We can all get stressd sumtimes n need to take time to think how the oh is feeling. Gud luck with the ttc x