SO angry

[Miss_Quirky]

Ranting...I am so annoyed with FOB right now. He has had LO since I was forced to leave Sac county, because I am trying to get on my feet. Well I have a job and am stable now, but he is now refusing to give LO to me for more than a weekend! He was sick last week when I asked for him and had doctors appointments, but now he says he doesn't care if I am his mum and me leaving the county was under an "excuse". What was I supposed to do, live in my damn car?! Because I had residency there and left, legally I cannot take LO out of that county without FOB's permission unless I take him to court, which I can in no way afford at all. He is "gracing" me with allowing me to have my son for a fucking weekend, when we were supposed to split it 50/50. I am so angry with him. I MISS my SON. He has had him for seven goddamn weeks, and I am furious that he is trying to keep him from me. He is being pissy because he knows he has the upper hand because he makes more money than I do, and expects ME to pay child support when I can't barely afford anything, because FOB has him most of the time. I helped him pay his RENT this month with $450, which he flat out told me he never intends to pay back, plus $100 for my son because I wanted to make sure that he had enough formula and everything he fucking needed. I bet that money didn't even go towards rent or my son....
I am working SO hard to get my life in order and I feel like he is just trying to make it harder instead of helping

 

[Dezireey]

I can see where this is headed sweetheart, I highly recommend you get some professional advice/ lawyer/ outside help as your FOB looks like he's going down the 'mum abandoned baby' path, which is never a good thing in the eyes of the law. The more he has your LO and spends time with them, the more rights he'll get and the more attached etc. I know you are the Mommy and you love your LO and sadly it won't look good for you leaving a baby with it's Dad full time, whatever the reason. You need some good guidance now to make your FOB see some sense here. Sounds like he is digging his heels in.

 

[Ersurgeongirl]

Check with the county or state... They may have free legal aid to help you out

 

[emeraldbaby]

I agree with desireey, act now! The longer you leave it to fight for your son the less chance you have at getting him back. Don't let him make you into a victim.
Good luck!