So angry!

[MissMonty]

Well, its day 28 for me and I can really feel the coming now, my cramps are getting worse and I'm spotting, my average cycle is usually 25/26 days and its the first month of using the CBFM (& cycle #5 TTC) so I was really getting my hopes up but tested this morning and got a negative result, i am so dissapointed again!

I'm angry because I'm having some issues at work and basically either myself or a guy I work with has to move to another office which is double the mileage. This guy has a 13 yr old, he is divorced and his 13 yr old stays with him one night during the week and he takes her to school one morning - he is arguing that he cannot move to the new office because of this. My boss (who is male) has told me that it will most likely be me who has to move as I do not have any children - I am so angry and upset by this - they do not know at work that I have been TTC for the past 5 months - I felt so upset at work all day as this is all they have been talking about - surely my boss is wrong for saying this to me - I feel like they are discriminating against me for not having any children, I want a baby and children so much

 

[miel]

oh so sorry missmonty...you are in a difficult situation .i hope everything work out for you
wishing the best,

 

[NeyNey]

Have you told them at your office that you're TTC? Perhaps they might see things a little different, if you explain that you will not want to be so far away with a young child

 

[avistar]

If it is bothering you so much, I think you should talk to your boss about how you are feeling. I don't think you should have to divulge your personal ttc story, but explain that he should take more consideration into having to make an employee move to another office. Best luck and let us all know what happens.

 

[barbanderson]

agrees here..you should have a chat with boss, explain that you are ttc

plus he needs to give you a better reason than you are childless as that is discrimination!

 

[suzan]

Agree with everyone else! talk to ur boss, be honest with him.

Good luck!

 

[faith_may]

 

[Mervs Mum]

Are you in a union?? If you are then talk to them - they can advise.

 

[Pixie5120]

lots of offices do this, they will side with the people with a family so that the family doesnt get disrupted, its not uncommon. maybe you should, as the other girls said, tell your boss you are trying to have a baby and see if this changes the situation at all.

 

[HAYS]

aw hun hope you get it sorted
xxx

 

[Vickie]

Hope you can get it sorted out.

 

[diva4180]

i'm sorry hun, I hope it all works out for you there.