So ANGRY!!!!

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Today our housing association rep paid us a surprise visit. They're supposed to give 24 hours notice regardless of what they're popping round for. She came round because I'd emailed her about the spooky goings on in our house and she's visited our neighbors to see if they'd had anything strange happen. Didn't so much bug me until she started to have a moan at me about various things. Our neighbors have told her that our 2 dogs keep getting into their garden through a HUGE hole in the hedge. Problem is, we've blocked that hole and started to put the dogs on a twin lead in the garden. It stops them trying to escape because if a hole is too small for one of them, the other can't get through so they'll stay put etc. They haven't escaped for weeks. On the other side of our neighbors lives a collie. Over excitable and slightly vicious. It's knocked our neighbors son off his trike and has pinned his mum against her wall whilst snarling at her. They haven't complained about THAT dog because her boyfriend is all chummy with the bloke who owns that dog. Charming eh?
Plus, my OH forgot to put our bin out to be emptied last week so now it's full and we've no where to put the excess rubbish thats building up, so I've put all the little bags of rubbish into a large black bin liner to keep it all together. The rep said it's unsightly. I told her I knew but there was nothing we could do until Monday which is bin collection day. Then she went on to tell us that the pile of hedge trimmings on the front garden (cut today) needed to be moved within 48 hours. At this point I'd had enough and said "Well, it's going to have to wait. I've been told to rest up in case this baby wants to make an early entrance to the world, plus YOUR company has written into the tenancy agreement that they would do it. Why do we pay a service charge for gardening and receive NOTHING for it?" She asked why my OH couldn't do it and I've told her time and time again that he has a bad chest (pains which we've been looking in to) and that if it gets too much he's useless for the rest of the day. She left in a huff and I complained that she'd turned up unannounced. She'd tried to tell me to clean the house too at which point I went a bit ape on her. I told her I was told to rest and that this is how the house often is with a 1 year old. If I'm having a day off cleaning it'll be in this state until tomorrow morning.
Urgh, I dunno what to do, I'm supposed to be resting and yet she's pretty much telling me we need to get it cleaned or move out. We've got to put up chicken wire around the garden and take pictures to prove that we've done it in case our neighbors say it's our dogs in their garden again. That way we can say it's not and to tell them to get stuffed.
 
Breathe and relax. You are doing nothing wrong :flower: Ignore your neighbours (I have neighbours who are the same) and write a lovely letter to the housing association telling them exactly what you think :D
 
I've sent our rep an email tonight explaining that after checking our garden it couldn't have been our dogs. We've take every precaution to stop them escaping. I've also told her what our neighbor said about the collie in the hopes that it was just a mistake and that she got the wrong dogs. I'm a lot calmer now. In all honesty I don't think it was so much our female neighbor. We get on like a house on fire. Her boyfriend can be a bit funny with people though. It's ok for him to blast out his music to the point where the bass shakes our walls at night but it's ok for him to put in false complaints about our dogs?
We're putting up the rest of the chicken wire (a secondary escape attempt precaution) around the garden tomorrow and taking pictures so that the next time our dogs get the blame we can prove it wasn't. They've complained about our dogs barking but never stopped their mum's dog trying to get under the fence to attack ours, resulting in our male dog going ballistic. I think its what he thinks is fair that's wound me up the most. The last time the dogs tried fighting, she came out and dragged their dog away and I grabbed mine yet her boyfriend was too busy on his phone. Their little boy was in the garden and instead of thinking of him in case the dog bit him in temper, he just carried on talking and laughing on his phone.
 
I understand everything you're saying. I could go on and on about my neighbours (they own cutesy weenie doggies while I own a big meanie German Shepherd and Mastiff :rolleyes:) but I'm going to work myself up :haha:

Definitely take a ton of pics to prove you've dog proofed your garden! If the music continues to bother you I would advise complaining to the council. You'll have to fill out a noise complaint form/diary for two weeks but hopefully it will help :thumbup:

Some people shouldn't own dogs!!
 
I know, its been a nightmare trying to keep our two in the back garden. We were doing well until the clever little sods worked out that chewing through the mesh fencing would let them out lol. We've put up chicken wire thought to stop them chewing through. It's worked like a charm and we're putting a patio down to stop them digging constantly. The last straw was me falling down a hole they'd dug whilst I hung out the washing. I fell flat on my ass and bought the washing line down just AFTER I'd hung out the clean washing lol. I didn't know whether to laugh or cry lol.
 
Oh I'd be soooo tamping!!

If my girls did that to me they'd come over and help me dirty the clothes even more! :haha:
 
lol. My OH heard me shouting and bought our daughter to the back door to see what was going on, I'm lying there like a turtle on it's back and all my daughter can see is her mummy rolling around shouting. That sets off her manic little giggle which sets off my OH and me. So now I'm totally helpless, sitting in mud, laughing my ass off at my daughter sounding like woody wood pecker and the more we laugh the more she laughs. It took a good 1/2 hour to calm down and get my OH to pick me up lol. When he came out to help me he took 1 look at me and started giggling again, put his hand out for me to grab and midway through pulling me up, his hand slipped and I fell back down this hole. He fell to his knees laughing and I just sat there crying with laughter at what a sight I must look lol. Eventually we managed to drag my ass back in the house and get myself cleaned up. I didn't much mind rewashing the clothes after that lol.
 
We were trying to tell my FiL about it when he visited later in the day but had to give up because we were laughing too much lol.
 

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