So annoyed with hubby

[Sexki11en]

So, we MC last month, waited for first AF and decided to try the SMEP. Start trying on CD8 and BD every other day until +OPK.

Day 8, managed (just) as i've not long had quite major surgery. So last night was day 10 - DH (hah!) had his works Christmas 'do' last ight and has promised for days he'd wake me up when he got in. I stayed up till 1.45am but couldn't stay awake any longer so went to sleep. I woke up at 8.30am this morning He didn't wake me up.

He can't see why i'm so angry with him. The weeks following a MC are supposed to be one of the most fertile times in your life. Now since we pretty much have diddly squat chance of conceiving by ourselves and can't afford another round of IVF, I had all my hopes pinned on this one. I just wanted to give it a shot as it was pretty much our only chance. He hasn't even said sorry. Nothing.

I didn't once complain about him going out all night when a) i've not long MC and b) I've not long had surgery and he couldn't even give me this.

I have a feeling I may be being unreasonable but I don't care. This is what IF has done to me.

SK x

 

[zanDark]

aw hun it's really frustrating when they seem to not understand I know I've been extremely disappointed and upset when DH is too tired to dtd on the most important days

I don't think you're being unreasonable...and even if you were you have every right to be

I'm sorry about your miscarriage dear I hope you get a lovely sticky bean soon

 

[MrsCompass]

SK, I don't think you're being unreasonable. I got upset with hubby a few days ago for the same reason .... he went out to a hockey game on the most crucial day. (Really?! Seriously?! Gggggrrrr!!!) Mind you he did leave the game after 2nd quarter, so he kinda met me halfway. But I was still annoyed.

I'm sorry about your recent MC. I MC'd in August and I have read as well that one is more fertile during the next 3 cycles after a MC .... but I'm not sure if this is just a wives tale.