my DH's boss is getting married on Friday and we are going. It is a black tie formal wedding, and damn the costs are mounting up. My dress and Dh's tux and now the baby sitter. We are paying $20 a hour for someone to watch Bren. Holy crap, I didn't know that was the going rate these days. If my airfare and hotel were not free, this would have cost us close to a $1000.