So confused and need advice

[Lilly02410]

Hi to everyone

Im in need of a bit of advice, first ill give a bit of my background (ill keep it as short as poss)
7 years ago i conceived my first baby (different partner) got to 20wks and had to have a medical termination due to a fluid build up preventing babys brain from developing. Relationship broke down and we seperated. 2 years ago i met my now husband and last year found out i was pg again, we were over the moon but i mc at 5wks, i fell again the month after mc and got to 9 wks before i mc again. We decided to wait till after Christmas before we try again.
My last af was 10 november 14, next af was due 12 december but didnt arrive, i tested on 24 december but was bfn, af is due today 12 jan but over the past few weeks i havent felt myself, ive had this feeling i can only describe as a stretching in my uterus, feeling and being sick, headaches, terrible backache, dizziness and light headed, very gassy, emotional and today my boobs are very sore and heavy.
I know the obvious answer is to re-test but with everything that has happened, im terrified.
Sorry this is so long, i appreciate any comments or advice
Thanks in advance
Claire x

 

[Lilly02410]

Sorry forgot to mention in above post that i also feel the clock ticking as im 31, will be 32 this year :-\

 

[TattyOfRoses]

Hi Claire. I too am 31 turning 32 this year so I understand the clock ticking feeling. I am also ttc #1. Have you considered having your progesterone levels tested? I have heard that with recurrent mc within the first trimester, sometimes low progesterone can be the culprit and once confirmed your doctor can prescribe a progesterone supplement. Did you retest after all? I know that seems intimidating, but it would be best to know and be able to visit your doctor to determine the best course of action to try to save this one.

 

[Lilly02410]

Hi Claire. I too am 31 turning 32 this year so I understand the clock ticking feeling. I am also ttc #1. Have you considered having your progesterone levels tested? I have heard that with recurrent mc within the first trimester, sometimes low progesterone can be the culprit and once confirmed your doctor can prescribe a progesterone supplement. Did you retest after all? I know that seems intimidating, but it would be best to know and be able to visit your doctor to determine the best course of action to try to save this one.

Hi
Drs have refused to do any testing until 3 mc in a row.
I did retest and got a bfp, drs say im approx 9+2, im terrified this could be the third but just taking each day as it comes, waiting for a scan appt for next week.

Thanks for replying and good luck to you