So confused ... Low heartbeat & fetal neoplasm CYST

[LovelyFay]

I should be getting my results as early as Thursday or Friday :-/ not looking forward to the call

 

[LovelyFay]

I will be praying for you mrsbroodypants ....is this your first pregnancy?

 

[MrsBroodyPant]

yes its my first. we were ttc for 22 cycles.
I will pray for u too xxx

 

[chulie]

Ladies I just wanted to say how sorry I am for all your going through.....I really think anything else would seem insignificant to say......xoxoxoxox...

 

[LovelyFay]

Thank you chulie!! Mrsbroodypants we where also trying to conceive for a long time. About a year to be exact ;( ...

 

[littleone2010]

Lovely fay I'm so sorry you are going through this. I hope you don't mind me popping by x

 

[littleone2010]

I just wanted to add a forum that helped me when I was going through testing for chromosome testing. Ladies there were supportive and inspirational making hard choices, love to you both x
https://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/antenatal_tests_choices

 

[MrsBroodyPant]

I got my results and my baby does have a chromosome disorder .
Good luck, i hope u get a better result than me xxx

 

[LovelyFay]

Im so sorry mrsbroodypant !! I know nothing can be said to relieve the pain .. Ill keep you & your DH in my prayers ..!!

 

[MrsBroodyPant]

Thanks.
Good luck for your results xxx

 

[Crazywaiter]

I'm so sorry, mrsbroodypant.

 

[LovelyFay]

Well i just recieved the Call from my genetics counselor and my little girl does not have Down syndrome trisanomy 13 , 18 or turners ! I'm am beyond ecstatic ... But we still need to find out about her Nouchal fold and why it's so large ad about her little heart defect !!

 

[littleone2010]

That's wonderful news!!! Looking forward to hearing the next piece of good news xxx

 

[MrsBroodyPant]

Thats brilliant news lovelyfay! I hope everything else improves and your little girl is healthy.
good luck xxx

 

[LovelyFay]

Thank you so much ladies you have no idea how much you have helped me .... I'm praying and praying for good news.. I wish you all the best and I will keep you updated .. My appointment with my fetal cardiologist is may 2 so I'm wishing for the best

 

[Crazywaiter]

Oh wow, that's so amazing! I'm thrilled for you, I hope you continue to get good news.

 

[LovelyFay]

Huello ladies ,

Just wanted to give an update .. Well my little girl is doing horrible . Her heart rate went down to 40-45 beats per minute. My fetal cardiologist gave me and extensive ultrasound and discovered that her 3&4 chmber is not working with her 1&2 chamber they are eating at completely different times. She has a big gap that is separating her top portion of her wart from her bottom. She has a deformed heart . Excessive fluid retention in her brain heart kidneys and lungs. Dr recommended termination because he said most likely if the baby survives I will go into labor at 28 weeks and due o all the excessive fluid retention in her lungs she will not be able to breath on her own and a ventilator will be very painful , she will have kidney failure and her heart has already begun to fail she will need a heart transplant before the age of 2. Dr was very honest and said quality of life will be no very good. Husband and I are really sad but we don't want our child to suffer.. It's a difficult decision we have to make.

Thank you too all you wonderful ladies... To all the lovely ladies who where fogging through difficulties also I hope to see you all in the tryin to concieve board

 

[MrsBroodyPant]

Hi lovelyfaye.

So very sorry to hear this. It is heartbreaking. Please take comfort in the fact that u are making the right decision as her parents. It is horrible that u have to go through this. Im so sorry. I wish u and your husband well.
Xxx

 

[littleone2010]

Hi lovely Faye. I'm so awfully sorry to hear your news. You have made such a hard heartbreaking decision and as her parents you have made the best choice possible. I wish you and your family lots of love and take support where you can. You will be in my thoughts xxxxx

 

[Crazywaiter]

I'm so sorry.