Hi Ladies,
I am 34 and ttc my first child. I fell pregnant 6 years ago (not planned) and miscarried around 8 or 9 weeks. My partner has an 8 year old son. We have been trying for 8months. This month I really thought we had it in the bag but this morning and what I think is 12dpo I have had very dark brown almost black spotting - just been to the loo again (2 hrs after wiping and find the brown blood) and nothing. AF was not due until Saturday. I have had awfu headaches, lots of cramps and some nausea. On Tuesday night for most of the evening I had a tugging, burying feeling in my left ovary so I thought for sure that was implanation. I just want to give up as this is so hard wanting something so much. I have regular 28 day cycles and after ovulation get typical ovulations symptoms. I feel like it's never going to happen and I don't know why. Think I will make a doctors appointment. Just want to go home to bed and cry and cry. We have tried bd every other day over the fertile period and this month every day and using preseed. I am overweight but was heavier when I fell pregnant before. Can anyone give me any tips. I have lost a stone in the last month and will continue to do so.
Thanks for listening.
I am 34 and ttc my first child. I fell pregnant 6 years ago (not planned) and miscarried around 8 or 9 weeks. My partner has an 8 year old son. We have been trying for 8months. This month I really thought we had it in the bag but this morning and what I think is 12dpo I have had very dark brown almost black spotting - just been to the loo again (2 hrs after wiping and find the brown blood) and nothing. AF was not due until Saturday. I have had awfu headaches, lots of cramps and some nausea. On Tuesday night for most of the evening I had a tugging, burying feeling in my left ovary so I thought for sure that was implanation. I just want to give up as this is so hard wanting something so much. I have regular 28 day cycles and after ovulation get typical ovulations symptoms. I feel like it's never going to happen and I don't know why. Think I will make a doctors appointment. Just want to go home to bed and cry and cry. We have tried bd every other day over the fertile period and this month every day and using preseed. I am overweight but was heavier when I fell pregnant before. Can anyone give me any tips. I have lost a stone in the last month and will continue to do so.
Thanks for listening.
and nothing good ever comes of it.
