So easy for some women!?

[mommylove]

Why is it those who want to have a baby, it's difficult. But those who aren't really planning to get pregnant, they get pregnant so easily!? That's so frustrating!

 

[aquaria6]

I know! I seriously have two friends who are not pregnant. Another fell just last week! Seriously every woman I consider a close friend is pregnant either with an oops baby or on a whim ttc for a couple of months after I told them my ttc plans. Boy are they leaving me in the dust.

 

[ourfate]

yeah very true. i try to think that for all of us having a hard time. it will be that much more special when we get our and we will appreciate every step of the way!

 

[me222]

I so understand!
I have one friend who wasn't planning on getting pregnant for a couple of yrs, but fell pregnant anyways -she was on the pill but kept forgetting to take it. Another 2 friends - 1 just had her baby, and they were ttc for only 4 months and another friend who is preggies and she and her hubby were only trying for 4 months too. sigh.

 

[chuichi]

Yes this has been happening to me too!!

Loads of friends, colleagues, cousins around me have been having babies except for me!!!! argh

 

[prepping]

I think it has to do with the fact that they're not paying attention to the months/years that go by without getting pregnant, whereas we are tracking every single day of not being pregnant. It's like watching a kettle boil.

 

[Bride2b]

I feel the same too.....everyone else seems to fall pregnant without trying, and we are having no luck, OH keeps asking me whats wrong....how the hell should I know, think he assumes its me,but I have a far healthier diet than him, so may not be me! I have been TTC for 9 months, so not long enough to consult the GP yet!

 

[kittymarie]

ugh agreed! my brother's EX girlfriend got pregnant on accident one night.. i was like dhfgdgd! i can't help but be jealous everytime i see the baby!

 

[kirstybumx3]

i agree.. like why so many accidentals? its crazy!!!!
they must be very lucky people in general..even if it seems unlucky to them!

i also get disheartened when someone gets pg that already has kids too, i know thats cruel and its not their fault they already do but.. just me and my fed up-ness now of ttc lol x

 

[mmlovepink]

I have no idea but it's very upsetting. People that don't even want babies just get pregnant. What annoys me the most is those people who get pregnant after having sex once (an accident/one night stand/fist time sex) and it just happens to be at the right time. They aren't even aware of what's happening while we are struggling to chart our cycles and pinpoint our ovulation. It' depressing.