so my ex came around last night..

[littlelinnies]

he didnt meantion the sitution until i brought it up, and kept being horrible and laughing when i was talking, and then i said to him were would freddy be if he didnt have me hey... he'd be screwed with you wouldnt he.. and he goes and yes.. " well yes! i would put him up for adoption!" and when he saw the look on my face he went well i'm not ready for a kid!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i wanted to punch him in the face! lol i would never do that, im not that sort of person but i was so mad.. anyways my sis bascially saw how upset i was getting and bascially started being really nice to him, trying to get him to be talked into seeing freddy more.. and now hes agreed he will see freddy for 2 hours once a week, and come maybe once a month at a weekend day to see him.. which i think is laughable! but my sis said we have got to start somewhere! i guess shes right...

 

[kirst1805]

Aww hun, It takes two, if he wasn't ready for a kid, he could've done something about it..

Bloody Men, I'll punch him for you if you like..

xxx

 

[littlelinnies]

awww thankyou lol made me laugh! hehe I know.. i know i was on the pill when i got pregnant, so i know we werent trying for a baby or anything but i was really in love with him, and to realise he didnt love me, and didnt want freddy is upsetting.

 

[cluelessnow]

So sorry He's just not worth it. Imagine Freddy hearing what he said, it would be so sad.

 

[littlelinnies]

The thought of it would break my heart... its made me want to get a wii written so if I died ( god for bid) my kids would go to my sister.. shes the closest person to them after me, she would look after them, like they were her own! she adores them both and they adore her, i dont have any family after her, so if I do get it down on paper and say something happened to me, I wouldnt want my ex giving freddy up for adoption.. and the thing that upsets me more aswell is he knows I was adopted myself. SICK..

 

[jessrabbit]

Cant believe he said that what a dick. Big hugs, hopefully he will grow up and realise what he is missing out on.

The fact that he is saying he will see him (however short the time), looks like a good sign to me though xx

 

[littlelinnies]

i know!well we are going to see how it goes give him a few weeks or so see if things change..