so scared

[xKARENxBABYx]

FOB is threating social services (had a social worker never got on with social services) anyways my house isn't the cleanes't or tidest though its liveable?? im scared they come in and take aiden away. hes had impetigo sp? twice hes just got it again and he thinks its my fault. i dunno what to do. im scared incase he gets full custody (as im not agreeing to him having aiden 10days to go on hoilday and everyweekend friday6 untill sunday6) if he dosn't get his own way he makes my life hell.

 

[TiredNurse27]

most single mother's houses aren't the cleanest/tidiest hun, if the social worker is a decent one she'll know that well.

I'm sure you've done nothing to cause your baby to catch the impetigo either, he probably just got it from crawling round and generally being a happy healthy child.

I hope it goes ok for you.

 

[AbbynChloe]

Really don't worry - I wish I could take a picture of my living room. Social services does not want to take children away from their mothers. In my experience with them (i'll share with you in a pm) they actually told FOB off for not supporting me enough!

If you wanna talk i'm here xxxxxx

 

[xKARENxBABYx]

thanks very much everyone i live with my mum and brother but my mum is disabled (not in a wheel chair but as too walk with cruches) anyways its hard im in the house most of the time and its hard to clean and watch aiden. the impetigo is really bad on the slide on his lip and on his neck. i got a lawyers letter about it well about the last time aiden had it on his cheeck. saying i didn't take him to doctors. when i did i even gave FOB and his family the meds. i dunno how the hell im going to get rid of it tbh... we all have it off my brother who got it off his friends baby girl. i swear it spreads quick. im just scared my baby boy means the world to me. he has too many clothes/toys and is loved every much. would social services search my house?? my HV said she had no concerns about aiden being with me but it worries me FOB is a dick xx

 

[emalou90]

RE: impetigo.. aslong as you've been and carry on going to the doctors and the state of your home isnt causing it then you've done nothing wrong

aiden is getting the best care from you, kids get these things now and again and if FOB has a problem with it well tell him to go suck eggs.

FOB's annoy me so much.
Amelia hit her chin once and i got questioned so much about it by FOB! ugh.

dont worry yourself so much xxxxxx

 

[xKARENxBABYx]

yeah its spread its all over his face now! its anoying cause i take him to doctors but yesterday they were shut and today they had a leak but are open this arfternoon were not too sure if its impetigo now its bleeding.. xx