So...ummm.....should I?

[nikky0907]

Umm,a date?

Basicly,my friend worked had this summer job last year at some advertising company.
Her boss was this guy she kinda became friends with(he's not much older,he's 25)

Anyway,she introduced us way back in October and he sort of like me,I didn't pay much attention...but we did became friends 'a bit'...meet up for coffee here and there.
Anyway,he asked me out somewhere around the time I became pregnant and I rejected him(I was still dealing with it all and didn't give him the reason).

We met accidentally(damn Willamstown,so freaking small!) when I was about 16 weeks and I told him about it and we had a REALLY nice talk about everything including the baby and my pregnancy.It was a great talk.

A week ago he texted me and we met for coffee(like I would reject a coffee opportunity,I'd go for one with Charles Manson ) once again and again asked me out! I was firstly shocked....but then once again said no.

It just isn't on my priority list to date.I am not interested,I just want it to be me and my little girl,focusing on her and our life.

Now he just called.On my house phone! I have no idea where he got the number!
But now I see that he has actually put such an effort into this,should I?


I'm confused? What do you girls feel about dating someone at WEEK 29 of your pregnancy?
Weird as hell to me....

 

[Younglutonmum]

Lol i'm regualry dating someone at the moment!! It's great fun & I find it's alot less pressurized than when i'm a non pregnant girlie lol!!

If you like him then go for it!! Ur not committing your self to anything!!

xxx

 

[~KACI~]

Go for it hun...you deserve it! x

 

[brownhairedmom]

Gooooo fooorrr itttttt. NOW! haha I'd kill for a date right now

But seriously though, it can be laid back, he knows you arent looking for commitment. Take it slow and see how it goes. There is nothing wrong with having male influence (particularly if this is good looking male influence) in your life


ALSO dating can lead to sex with the right person. I'd go for it. But that might just be my crazy insane pornstar hormone induced sex drive talking

:thumpup: on this situation

 

[nikky0907]

The positive feedback!

My hand is now REALLY itching for the phone...

It's so weird! I will look like a whale no matter what I wear.

But Rae, you are seriously putting ideas in my head with this sex talk.I can't even remember what is sex!

 

[~KACI~]

.I can't even remember what is sex!

Neither can my OH!! Pick up the god damn phone girl!!!

 

[nikky0907]

.I can't even remember what is sex!

Neither can my OH!! Pick up the god damn phone girl!!!

Oh well....if you insist.....*runs to the phone!*

 

[~KACI~]

Good luck hun, i'l check on this thread 2moz its 11pm here goin to bed in min got to be up for 4am...next sale starts 2moz!!

 

[brownhairedmom]

But Rae, you are seriously putting ideas in my head with this sex talk.I can't even remember what is sex!

hah I can then! Its on my mind 24 hours of the day, 7 days out of the week. Just because I always want what I can't have lol


*books plane tickets to NY*

 

[nikky0907]

You're a complicated lady!
Lets just hope the poor fellow in NY knows what he is getting himself into *cough* horny animal *cough*

 

[miel]

hoping you having a nice chat on the phone....
good luck!

 

[maybebaby]

Yay!!!! I say GO GO GO!!!

 

[brownhairedmom]

You're a complicated lady!
Lets just hope the poor fellow in NY knows what he is getting himself into *cough* horny animal *cough*

Somehow I don't see him complaining


You had better be on that phone!

 

[cuddles314]

Aww, go for it hun. He sounds nice, and obviously realises what a yummy Mummy (to be) you are. xxx

 

[leeanne]

She didn't come back to tell us what happened? Humph!

Maybe she's having her date now.

 

[Suz]

Hope you go for it...... Enjoy!!!!

 

[xarlenex]

Go for it, this guy sounds genuiene..you cant imagine to many men That interested in dating a women ready to have a baby soon..He must just bring that little bit more happiness to your life that u deserve!

 

[nikky0907]

Well,well....thanks for worrying! As far as you guys knew the guy could have been at my door,I opened it,he gagged me,kidnapped me and is now keeping me in his basement waiting for me to give birth so he can steal my child and pas it of as his own....



Well,anyway.I did call him back and we made plans for Saturday night aka Tonight!
I have no idea where he's taking me so no idea what to wear.,,blah,who cares.I'll look huge no matter what I wear!

 

[demonmadcat]

Well,well....thanks for worrying! As far as you guys knew the guy could have been at my door,I opened it,he gagged me,kidnapped me and is now keeping me in his basement waiting for me to give birth so he can steal my child and pas it of as his own....



Well,anyway.I did call him back and we made plans for Saturday night aka Tonight!
I have no idea where he's taking me so no idea what to wear.,,blah,who cares.I'll look huge no matter what I wear!

Hmm... perhaps it's not a good idea to meet him if you think he's capable of this.... lol

Em

 

[Moulder86]

Good for you girlie and you won't look huge in whatever you where you're pregnant not fat!! (thats what I keep getting told). Have fun and enjoy yourself.
x