Soft cup method wtf??

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  1. lewood88

    lewood88 Mom of 2 expecting #3

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    ok i know this has nothing to do wiv this thread but im avin a blonde moment, i had a lil nose on ttc as its been ages since i went on there wen i was tryin with my ex bit what is this soft cup method???
     
  2. AimeeM

    AimeeM Mum to 3 Boys.

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    I think it's a cup that holds the sperm up there longer although I might be wrong!
     
  3. lewood88

    lewood88 Mom of 2 expecting #3

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    im really confused i have visions of a plastic party cup up sum1s vagina :S
     
  4. AimeeM

    AimeeM Mum to 3 Boys.

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    Thats gross :haha:

    Have you seen one of these contraceptive diaphragm thingys? I think it will be like that. I'm off to have a look now..

    Edit: there you go, https://www.early-pregnancy-tests.com/softcup.html
     
  5. sam1984

    sam1984 Well-Known Member

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    ok i dont know if i would want to be poking my fingers in there after my husband has deposited. but i think the suggesting that you get him to do it in the cup is strange, you would have to be careful not to spill it every where
     
  6. lewood88

    lewood88 Mom of 2 expecting #3

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    well yea im jus findin this a lil odd. if he is gonna spunk in a cum why not have full penetration??? im jus findin this a lil weird :S
     
  7. lewood88

    lewood88 Mom of 2 expecting #3

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    ''Use Softcup as a reservoir to keep sperm close to the cervix

    Although commonly used for period protection, trying-to-conceive (TTC) couples have discovered a new use for the Softcup - as a fertility aid!


    So how are women using the hypo-allergenic Softcup to increase their chances of conceiving a baby? Instead of inserting the Softcup during their periods, trying-to-conceive couples are using the Softcup following lovemaking to help pool and hold sperm around the cervix. Alternately, semen can be directly deposited into the Softcup reservoir and inserted directly into the vagina and around the cervix''.

    right i understand puttin it up after he as released his lil guys but just dont understand why he wud wanna release in the cup and insert in u that would be a right mess and wudnt he jus be shootin it all over the place :s
     
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    sam1984 Well-Known Member

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    good old method, good sex then legs in the air for 5 minutes, save alot of fiddling and money aswell
     
  9. lewood88

    lewood88 Mom of 2 expecting #3

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    exactly!! or good old doggy cant go wrong with the natural ways lol
     
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    sam1984 Well-Known Member

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    or go for a good weekend, lock the doors, turn off the phone and try them all.
    i think people will sell anything and it is sad that they play on peoples desperate wishes to have babies that they are making money.
    i just hope that people who have tried it this way have had success
     
  11. lewood88

    lewood88 Mom of 2 expecting #3

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    yea me to it is a shame how horrible ppl are to try and make money out of ppl like that the only thing i brought was a opk with my ex and had no success with that as i wasnt ovulatin due to pcos but i met my ''friend with benefit'' and hay presto i have a bun in the oven hahaha :D
     
  12. bellaxgee

    bellaxgee Alexa's mommy & TTC #2

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    i actually used the softcup - mostly because my hubby ::ahem:: "cums" alot and i think its sooo gross when i clean up. the smell of it alone makes me gag (poor hubby lol). So i would just put the cup in when he was finished and then go to sleep and by morning it was practically empty. all of the spermies went to the right place because i am finally preggers!
     
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    sam1984 Well-Known Member

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    sorry this might be a tmi question but was it not messy putting it in?
     
  14. AimeeM

    AimeeM Mum to 3 Boys.

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    I can totally see how it would work. I think when i was TTC before if i had seen them and if i wasn't so scared of getting things stuck up there :blush: i'd have had a go!
     
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    lewood88 Mom of 2 expecting #3

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    that is amazin wow no mess thats the one thing i h8 wen gravity makes things cum bk out ''yuk'' i feel horrid lol but that is amzin u got pregnant off it :D congrats chick xxx
     
  16. bellaxgee

    bellaxgee Alexa's mommy & TTC #2

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    it actually wasnt messy putting it in at all. you pinch the sides of it so it is about the size of a tampon, stick it in and it opens up. i dont really think it made us get pregnant...i just liked the no mess!
     
  17. lesbianlove

    lesbianlove mummy to 3 boys :)

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    soft cup is also used by same sex couples i personaly didnt use it but know plenty of women who have, and thev all fell pregnant i supose the more swimmers you can get up the cervix the better chance uv got
     
  18. Mazzy17

    Mazzy17 Well-Known Member

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    Putting in softcup is kinda like putting in a Mooncup when AF comes

    *goes back to TTC*
     

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