jessabella
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Well today I went to a neighbours place and she was feeding her baby boy (11months). I started talking about things that I plan to do when little Olivia arrives..talked about cloth nappies, breastfeeding, baby lead weaning, babywearing, daily routines..sleeping patterns...ect ..ect...
I know this person has a sweet heart so I didnt get upset but was a bit discouraging when she said....
"I have never met anyone who actually stuck with cloth nappies, they all have the best intentions but give up"
"Everyone who I know who has a baby carrier says its a waste of money as you dont use it very often, Ive only used mine a handful of times"
"The only reason I feed my baby this way is because this is the only way he allows me to feed him..if he does it himself"
"I tried to let baby sleep in my room but after a week or so he went to his own room as he will annoy you and disturb your sleep with all his sounds"
She basically said that everything I would like to try will not work and even though I have the best intentions I have to do what the baby wants and then try to make everything else work around it...She said I wont have time to make my own baby food and wash nappies and try to figure out wich nappy works best..she then also said I wont be able to 'chat' on my "baby forum" like I do now..as there will be no time in my day for that.
I mean I know it wont be a walk in the park and I know that the way I choose to do things are not as easy as it could be if I choose "alternative ways" but its the way I would like to do things and try atleast and I think if you have your mind set to do something then you will put all of your effort into it right? Amm I being daft and over zeolous and nieve...being a first time mum!
Sorry for the rant..I never go on like this..but just wanting to hear how you ladies do it..how have you managed everything ...someone tell me that I can do the things I really want to do!!!
I know this person has a sweet heart so I didnt get upset but was a bit discouraging when she said....
"I have never met anyone who actually stuck with cloth nappies, they all have the best intentions but give up"
"Everyone who I know who has a baby carrier says its a waste of money as you dont use it very often, Ive only used mine a handful of times"
"The only reason I feed my baby this way is because this is the only way he allows me to feed him..if he does it himself"
"I tried to let baby sleep in my room but after a week or so he went to his own room as he will annoy you and disturb your sleep with all his sounds"
She basically said that everything I would like to try will not work and even though I have the best intentions I have to do what the baby wants and then try to make everything else work around it...She said I wont have time to make my own baby food and wash nappies and try to figure out wich nappy works best..she then also said I wont be able to 'chat' on my "baby forum" like I do now..as there will be no time in my day for that.
I mean I know it wont be a walk in the park and I know that the way I choose to do things are not as easy as it could be if I choose "alternative ways" but its the way I would like to do things and try atleast and I think if you have your mind set to do something then you will put all of your effort into it right? Amm I being daft and over zeolous and nieve...being a first time mum!
Sorry for the rant..I never go on like this..but just wanting to hear how you ladies do it..how have you managed everything ...someone tell me that I can do the things I really want to do!!!