This may become a rant lol sorry in advance. Well, i have a year left at college to complete 5 A Levels and want to get that done with, then maybe (just maybe) go to Uni and do an accounting degree.
My OH wants me to get a job this year and not go back to college so that we can afford to move out. My argument for not doing what he wants is that there aren't many jobs available atm and if i was lucky enough to find one, i'd probably only be on minimum wage. I do NOT want to be working in low paid jobs all of my life! I'd rather spend the extra year or so getting qualified so i can just start jobs on a higher salary.
His argument for me getting a job is so that we'd have a dual income. I understand this 'cos i wouldn't want to move in with him properly if i'm not contributing to the house or anything. He dropped out of college at 17, he's now 20 and is earning £12k a year as an accountant. In my opinion, he just got lucky tbh! If i go to Uni and do accounting, if i started the same job under the same description as him i'd be starting on at least £18k! He wants me to find a trainee job like he started off on, then work my way up within the company. Everywhere i've looked, no-one is taking trainee's on, they're looking for already qualified people.
Anyone think i'm being completely horrible to him by wanting to stick to my life plan? He's acting like i don't want to be with him!
My OH wants me to get a job this year and not go back to college so that we can afford to move out. My argument for not doing what he wants is that there aren't many jobs available atm and if i was lucky enough to find one, i'd probably only be on minimum wage. I do NOT want to be working in low paid jobs all of my life! I'd rather spend the extra year or so getting qualified so i can just start jobs on a higher salary.
His argument for me getting a job is so that we'd have a dual income. I understand this 'cos i wouldn't want to move in with him properly if i'm not contributing to the house or anything. He dropped out of college at 17, he's now 20 and is earning £12k a year as an accountant. In my opinion, he just got lucky tbh! If i go to Uni and do accounting, if i started the same job under the same description as him i'd be starting on at least £18k! He wants me to find a trainee job like he started off on, then work my way up within the company. Everywhere i've looked, no-one is taking trainee's on, they're looking for already qualified people.
Anyone think i'm being completely horrible to him by wanting to stick to my life plan? He's acting like i don't want to be with him!