Someones comment really upset me today

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  1. Aidan's Mummy

    Aidan's Mummy Mummy to Aidan and Oliver

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    today i saw a person i knew form school at college. She knows another girl that is preg called faith who is due the 31st.

    But anyway she looked at my bump today and said "eeew your bump is such a weird shape its so wide and low, are you sure he isnt deformed of something, cos faiths bumps is nothing like yours" :cry: :cry:. That really upset me mostly about the deformed baby bit i mean what a thing to sy to a preg woman. I actually went into the ladies toilets and cried :cry:

    Some people can be so hurtful
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  2. xXDonnaXx

    xXDonnaXx Well-Known Member

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    :o That's so rude. I would have said something back to her like "Whats wrong with your face, it looks deformed, like dead wide" See what she said to that. Silly bitch. Faiths bump probably isnt the same as yours. Coz every girls bump is different. Or does she think they all have to look the same!? Freak! :hugs: Don't listen to her hun. She obviously hasn't got a clue about pregnancy. Hope your ok. x
     
  3. clairebear

    clairebear Mummy to 2 handsome boys.

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    that is so mean and out of order i would have had to have slapped the bitch x


    :hug: hun x x
     
  4. luvbunsazzle

    luvbunsazzle Mummy to Rosie

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    Awww hun, take no notice of her, she is an ignorant nobody. Your bump is gorgeous and your little boy will be gorgeous to.
     
  5. Nikkinoonoo

    Nikkinoonoo Mummy to a gorgeous girl

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    Sounds like the only thing "deformed" was her tiny mind! Stupid prat!
     
  6. MrsP

    MrsP Mummy to Eleanor & Henry

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    Horrible cow!!! Take no notice hon. These bloody horrid people that think there is a sterio type of what bumps should look like and more to the point they think they have the right to comment.

    Just ignore them. LO will be perfect! x x
     
  7. Shri

    Shri Well-Known Member

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    That girl is nothing but ignorant. Don't waste your time and energy on her hunny - her comment says everything about her and NOTHING about your bump.
     
  8. Aidan's Mummy

    Aidan's Mummy Mummy to Aidan and Oliver

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    thanks girls it just really annoys me that people that have never been preg before are experts cos they know someone who is preg :hissy:
    xx
     
  9. polo_princess

    polo_princess ♥ Brookes Mummy ♥

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    How ignorant!! Dont take any notice!!
     
  10. MrsP

    MrsP Mummy to Eleanor & Henry

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    Oh I have a SIL like that. Don't you just love them. She knows so much considering she has never been pregnant before.

    She was even telling me how short staffed all the hospitals are and that you get left for hours on your own. I am sure there i some truth in that, but not every hospital in the country and how the hell would she know anyway!!! ARGH!!!
     
  11. mrscookie

    mrscookie Mama and expecting

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    i don't condone violence, but i would have slapped her... cheeky cow!
    :( everyone is a different shape babe, im way different to my sister, she had a neat little football, while i have a big flab roll. Dont worry about it, shes just a twat :) xxxxxx
     
  12. Ema

    Ema Mummy :) xxx

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    What a stupid COW!! Ignore her hunni :hug: XxX
     
  13. missjacey44

    missjacey44 Jacey & Baby Tye

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    What a bitch! Thats a horrible thing to say, She obvioulsy doesnt have a brain and knows nothing and seems childish. Everyones bump is different and you know there is nothing wrong with your little man. Ignor the stupid cow if she says anything again
     
  14. PeanutBean

    PeanutBean Mumma to Byron & Indigo

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    God, what a tit! Please ignore her. What a horrible and unfounded thing to say! For one thing your bump is beautiful for another, what does one random girl know about bumps based on having seen one bump in her whole life? We see all our bump pics all the way along and no-one has ever had a weird shaped one. What crap. Fancy suggesting your baby is deformed!!!!! You should've smacked her!
     
  15. Blob

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    Ha ha think i would have laughed at how obviously delinquent that person was.. how can you compare different peoples bumps and imagine that they would be the same.. urgh you should have told her to keep her comments to herself. :hugs: All the pics i've seen of your bump look totally normal!!
     
  16. Sophie1205

    Sophie1205 Mum to 1 and WTT

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    Omg what a horrible thing to say!! As someone else said, I would have slapped her! lol
    Ignore her hun, she hasnt got a clue

    xx
     
  17. bambikate

    bambikate Mummy of 2 gorgeous girls

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    omg!!!!!!!!!!!! stupid cow dont listen to her sweetie. what a stupid thing to say! x x
     
  18. nessajane

    nessajane Well-Known Member

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    what a silly cow!!
     
  19. Some people are just so god damn thick. Stupid bint
     
  20. bex

    bex Our little princess

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    Like everyone else has said, ignore her. I can't believe that someone would actually say something like that. People can be so cruel.
     

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