Soooo Nervous....

[Lea05x]

Hi all....just wanted to write to see if anyone else feels more nervous the closer you get to ovulation? Im due to ovulate in 4 days and im really feeling nervous as I want this so much.....as Im sure all of you want it too! This is my third month and trying and the most nervous I have ever felt

 

[Hena]

I'm the same way, then I spend the entire 2WW obsessing over every little twinge I feel in my body!

My doc told me to relax as much as I can, and enjoy the because it will be harder to find the time when we finally have our LO. She even reccomended having a little wine before to help relax (although she stressed moderation!)

Try to do whatever you can to calm the nerves and enjoy the time with your OH, good luck!!!!

 

[pooch]

i'm nervous because it's hard to convince my DH to hve sex! he is overweight and is constantly stressed out (he has to travel a lot for work) and i know there's a small window and i'm afraid each month he'll say to when i ask him to DTD! the first two months we did it once (second month i had a chemical) and so far this month we've done it twice, but i miscalculated OV because i just got a positive OPK yesterday. i asked him for sex last night and this morning and he said no. wtf??? doesn't he get it?

 

[silverbell]

I don't get nervous near ovulation at all, but perhaps I'm in the minority there? I get excited cos it's time to try and catch that egg.

We want this so badly too. It's the 2ww that I hate - particularly the last few days of it.

 

[Lea05x]

Glad to hear other people feel the same nerves as I do. It stresses me out when people say you need to have fun and dont put any pressure on yourselves but how can we not?? Me and my OH tend to have every other day and we do have fun but making a baby is still at the back of our minds. I never thought TTC would be this difficult...do any of you do BBT charting aswell? Im thinking of doing this aswell as OPK's....x

 

[DG1984]

I don't get nervous waiting to ovulate, I get more nervous after ovulation and having to wait to test lol! I'm going to test in 3 days and every day I get more nervous because I'm so afraid AF will show up early!

I'm still fairly new to TTC so I'm still learning about how this all works. We thought making a baby would be so easy like it was for my sister (she has 5 kids and apparently they lucked out the first try every single time), but we are learning to relax and enjoy trying to have our first child, but it definitely is a stressful time too.

 

[waiting2be]

i'm very nervous this month because i took my 1st round of clomid just got my OPK test a few mins ago so i will start testing today

We started to BH sunday and will do everyother day until i get a postive then everyday
I really hope this is our month (TTC 2 yrs 7 months)

Lea05x i will alsot be O this week

 

[Lea05x]

i'm very nervous this month because i took my 1st round of clomid just got my OPK test a few mins ago so i will start testing today

We started to BH sunday and will do everyother day until i get a postive then everyday
I really hope this is our month (TTC 2 yrs 7 months)

Lea05x i will alsot be O this week

let me know how it goes with the clomid hun....i do my OPK every morning as they say this is the best time. Have you tried pre seeds before? Ive heard some great stories about this x

 

[waiting2be]

I will be trying pre seed next month <-- hope i dont have to
As for OPK I have read mix things about when to test but I will be testing around 2 in the afternoon

I will make sure to keep you posted.... we will BD tonight

 

[xsarahxxannx]

I am definitely more nervous. I just got my positive OPK today and for some reason I have been freaking out! We have been BDing every other day and today happens to be a day that we are going to BD anyway, but I feel like there is so much more pressure on tonight than there has been all of the other nights! I want this so bad!
This is my first month on Clomid also and I have been trying to be relaxed and not obsess so much because I'm scared that if I obsess and stress.. it's never going to happen!

 

[waiting2be]

I am definitely more nervous. I just got my positive OPK today and for some reason I have been freaking out! We have been BDing every other day and today happens to be a day that we are going to BD anyway, but I feel like there is so much more pressure on tonight than there has been all of the other nights! I want this so bad!
This is my first month on Clomid also and I have been trying to be relaxed and not obsess so much because I'm scared that if I obsess and stress.. it's never going to happen!

totally understad what u are feeling b/c i'm feeling the same way!
I feel like I'm thinking about it so much that it makes me scared it wont happen b/c i cant stop thinking about this week being THE week!

I'm not thinking about it while we BD but when its over i'm already back to my brain thinking way too much! dont get up, do i put my legs up? is it coming out?!?!?!? should we have tried a different position?!? Brain just stop thinking! <-- easier said than done lol

 

[Hanawanabump]

Ive been really nervous!!!! We started officially TTC today, and I feel nervous/excited, but leading up to this, last period etc Ive been really nervous. I know Im ready for it but I think that major step of changing your life being finally here is still a little overwhelming! It sounds like theres a few of us O-ing this week so to us all!!!

 

[silverbell]

let me know how it goes with the clomid hun....i do my OPK every morning as they say this is the best time. Have you tried pre seeds before? Ive heard some great stories about this x

Just wanted to say that this is incorrect - OPKs are best taken in the afternoon, as the surge happens some time in the morning.

It's pregnancy tests that are best taken in the morning.

 

[Lea05x]

let me know how it goes with the clomid hun....i do my OPK every morning as they say this is the best time. Have you tried pre seeds before? Ive heard some great stories about this x

Just wanted to say that this is incorrect - OPKs are best taken in the afternoon, as the surge happens some time in the morning.

It's pregnancy tests that are best taken in the morning.

Thanks silverbell, I didnt realise this and will now be doing mine in the afternoon....fingers crossed for us x

 

[Lea05x]

I am definitely more nervous. I just got my positive OPK today and for some reason I have been freaking out! We have been BDing every other day and today happens to be a day that we are going to BD anyway, but I feel like there is so much more pressure on tonight than there has been all of the other nights! I want this so bad!
This is my first month on Clomid also and I have been trying to be relaxed and not obsess so much because I'm scared that if I obsess and stress.. it's never going to happen!

Hope you had fun BDing hun....let us know how you get on x

 

[snd80]

i'm nervous because it's hard to convince my DH to hve sex! he is overweight and is constantly stressed out (he has to travel a lot for work) and i know there's a small window and i'm afraid each month he'll say to when i ask him to DTD! the first two months we did it once (second month i had a chemical) and so far this month we've done it twice, but i miscalculated OV because i just got a positive OPK yesterday. i asked him for sex last night and this morning and he said no. wtf??? doesn't he get it?

I totally feel you on this one!!! My DH and I literally got into it last week cause I O'd and he wasn't "in the mood"... I'm like OK, I only need you once a month, and this is the week you flake out on me? After a day of silent treatment to him, he was on board the next day, but I guess it was too late!!! Mine is overweight too, and on dialysis on top of that, but come on! Men can be such insensitive jackass's sometimes!!

Hope he changes his mind for you tonight and Good luck!

 

[pooch]

right? i was thinking last night that i'm the one that's going to have to deal with being pregnant for 9 months and doing most of the taking care of the baby once it's born, can you just spare 5 minutes of your time maybe 3 times a month? i mean, come on! i'm not asking him to run 5 miles or anything.

 

[waiting2be]

No happy face on my O test yesterday so we skipped out on the BD

 

[happythought]

I get very anxious until I see a positive OPK. Then I relax and I am fine. Its the TWW that makes me very very anxious and stressed. I am now due any day and I am a mess. Hoping AF doesnt come around. I am ready to hear happy news!!

 

[Lea05x]

I get very anxious until I see a positive OPK. Then I relax and I am fine. Its the TWW that makes me very very anxious and stressed. I am now due any day and I am a mess. Hoping AF doesnt come around. I am ready to hear happy news!!

Fingers crossed for you hun....keep us posted x