Sorry another pointless rant

[suzanne108]

Argh.....

FOB was supposed to be coming yesterday but text to say he couldn't make it and could he come later in the week. So I replied that yes he could come thurs or fri, he said he was working but would try to swap his shifts one day (I know this isn't a big deal for him, managers dont care as long as someone turns up) but if he couldn't could he come saturday, so I said yeah that wasn't a problem just to let me know as soon as he could.

So this all happened on saturday which I thought was plenty time to contact his work mates and ask to swap, but I still hadn't heard anything (apart from the stupid V day text). So I've just text asking when he's coming....

"I'm coming on sunday why? Is that a problem?"

So he was planning on coming on a day we hadnt even mentioned, without checking if I was available. Not to mention the fact I've told him I'd rather he didnt come Sunday whilst I'm still living with my parents. Its their day of rest, they're being good enough to let me stay here so why should they have to put up with him lingering on a sunday? He works in a gym so not as if sat/sun are his only days off. In fact he works a lot of sundays so that 'rule' shouldnt really effect him too much.

So still waiting to find out when he's actually coming, he hasn't seen her since she was 3 weeks old.

Sorry for pointless rantings...I'm kinda using this as a diary

 

[kellydid2]

Feel free to rant away

 

[suzanne108]

Right...updating for my benefit...dont need to reply girls I know I'm boring

So I told him I couldnt do sun. When we were texting on fri (I said sat above, was actually friday!) he said that this week he was working tue-fri. So just now I said if he wasnt working on sat why couldnt he come? He replied saying 'I'm working mon-sat this week'.....so it changed from tue-fri to mon-sat...one of these is clearly a lie!!!

 

[suzanne108]

Right...updating for my benefit...dont need to reply girls I know I'm boring

So I told him I couldnt do sun. When we were texting on fri (I said sat above, was actually friday!) he said that this week he was working tue-fri. So just now I said if he wasnt working on sat why couldnt he come? He replied saying 'I'm working mon-sat this week'.....so it changed from tue-fri to mon-sat...one of these is clearly a lie!!!

 

[kellydid2]

Right...updating for my benefit...dont need to reply girls I know I'm boring

So I told him I couldnt do sun. When we were texting on fri (I said sat above, was actually friday!) he said that this week he was working tue-fri. So just now I said if he wasnt working on sat why couldnt he come? He replied saying 'I'm working mon-sat this week'.....so it changed from tue-fri to mon-sat...one of these is clearly a lie!!!

Oh dear. Why did he think that he could get away with lying to you about it? Bah men!

 

[suzanne108]

Because he's an idiot!!

I have a feeling he wants to either watch football or work on his house on saturday - I could be wrong.

Oh well, if he is gonna get bored of visiting I'd rather it happened now whilst Lola is still young enough to not remember him.

 

[teal]

That's annoying that he just assumes you're available.

Very convenient that his hours suddenly changed at work! I agree with you that probably better for your parents aswell that he wasn't there on their day off.

xx

 

[tinkabells]

I would say im sorry you cant come that day, i have plans, i have given you the options you have moved them around constantly, now you either come this or, or we have to arrange for further along in the month? xxx

 

[lou_w34]

Agree with above, id say something like "we agreed the days you could come, sunday wasnt an option as i have plans" Or something like that!

Its quite cheeky that he assumes he can just pick a day and not check with you first!



xx

 

[kellydid2]

Considering how much he's mucked you around with the visits if that day isn't suitable then tell him to get stuffed

 

[expecting09]

Agree with everyone else! It's not upto him when he decides to come, pfft. I think arranging well in advance would probably be best x