Sort of Rant. I'm Angry.

[AyaChan]

Some of you may know, I'm booked for a sweep on my due date if baby hasn't come before.
FOB/OH is supposed to be there with me, as I really don't want it done on my own.

Now his fat stupid annoying and evil stepmum is saying he's not allowed to have the day of school to be there for me.

IT'S MY FUCKING DUE DATE FOR GODSAKE.

And she let her daughter off school constantly when she was pregnant!
He asks for one day off, a really special day, and she says NO!

I'm so upset and angry.
I really want him there

Now baby REALLY needs to come before 7th May

 

[celestek89]

ill keep everything crossed for you babe xox MIL's are out to hate us i swear hahah

 

[cabaretmum2b]

Jesus, what a nasty piece of work! Well, he'll just have to be there, whether she likes it or not, so I'd tell her that in no uncertain terms!

 

[AyaChan]

I just found out her reason for not letting him come with me

Her and his aunty didn't have anyone with them when they had sweeps.

WHO CARES?

I don't want to be on my own. I'm bloody terrified. There's no-one else who can go with me.
I want him to hold my hand

xx

 

[Sarah10]

Thats awful of her! How old is he if you don't mind me asking? She's got to let him its your due date xxxxx

 

[AyaChan]

Thats awful of her! How old is he if you don't mind me asking? She's got to let him its your due date xxxxx

He turns 16 on my due date.

xx

 

[Natasha2605]

How horrible for you! What's the chances of her having a change of heart? Surely he's not happy about it either? xx

 

[AyaChan]

How horrible for you! What's the chances of her having a change of heart? Surely he's not happy about it either? xx

There's no way she'll change her mind. Once she decides something then thats it. Which has why my pregnancy has been 3 times harder than it should be anyways, because she makes everything so awkward

No he's not happy about it, but she's the sort of person who will make his life hell if he tries to stick up for himself :/

She'll say something like I can't go up there if he asks her to change her mind.
It's what she usually does

I hate her.



xx

 

[celestek89]

omg what a bitch!! can your family be with you at least hun so your not on your own??

 

[AyaChan]

omg what a bitch!! can your family be with you at least hun so your not on your own??

No

My mum lives in west wales so can't see her coming down for a sweep lol.
And my nan works all day on a friday (which is my due date), and my 2 aunts will be in college.

OH was the only one able to come :/

God I HATE his stepmum, she always does stuff like this

Can I shoot her?

xx

 

[Embo]

I can't believe someones mum would make their child miss something do to with their child, can't she remember how important/stressful it was when she had her kids!! Can't he miss school without telling her, I know thats wrong to go behind parents backs and things but he is becoming a daddy he doesn't want to miss the day where things could happen just for a few hours in school where he could catch up with his school work anytime! I am sure his teachers would be understanding.

I hope things work out for you both and she comes before that day! xx

 

[cabaretmum2b]

That's SO unfair!!! So what if they didn't have anyone with them? They're not you!
Could he come up straight after school? What time is your sweep?
OR could any of your family talk to her about it?

 

[AyaChan]

I can't believe someones mum would make their child miss something do to with their child, can't she remember how important/stressful it was when she had her kids!! Can't he miss school without telling her, I know thats wrong to go behind parents backs and things but he is becoming a daddy he doesn't want to miss the day where things could happen just for a few hours in school where he could catch up with his school work anytime! I am sure his teachers would be understanding.

I hope things work out for you both and she comes before that day! xx

I wish. But seriously this woman is on the ball.
She made the school promise to TEXT her, not call, but text, whenever he misses a lesson, is late, or doesn't go to school at all.

I swear to god she just loves to have a reason to have a go at him.

Why go to the trouble of making the school text over such stupid things??



xx

 

[AyaChan]

That's SO unfair!!! So what if they didn't have anyone with them? They're not you!
Could he come up straight after school? What time is your sweep?
OR could any of your family talk to her about it?

Yeahh he could come straight after school, but my mw said it will be either in the morning, or just before 3, and he doesn't finish until 10 past :/.

Getting my family to talk to her is a bad idea, as they hate each other due to all the trouble she's caused in the last 9 months :/

If I can get a deffinate time off my mw though, I could always chance asking her if he can leave school early if its not in the morning???

xx

 

[cabaretmum2b]

That's SO unfair!!! So what if they didn't have anyone with them? They're not you!
Could he come up straight after school? What time is your sweep?
OR could any of your family talk to her about it?

Yeahh he could come straight after school, but my mw said it will be either in the morning, or just before 3, and he doesn't finish until 10 past :/.

Getting my family to talk to her is a bad idea, as they hate each other due to all the trouble she's caused in the last 9 months :/

If I can get a deffinate time off my mw though, I could always chance asking her if he can leave school early if its not in the morning???

xx

Hmmm.

Yeah, that's a good idea. If it's the one that's just before 3, see if you can stall them for a bit until he gets there? Or just explain to your midwife and see if she can book and appointment when he'll be able to get there.

How silly that you have to do so much running around when your pregnant, just because his stepmum's decided to be pathetic and immature. What's her problem???

 

[Boony]

how long would it take him to get there from school? if it doesnt take long he might make it in time for the 3 appointment? most doctors surgerys run late anyway lol.

If he isnt able to be there its not the end of the world sweeps arent that bad i promise. When i had mine my DH had to stay behind the curtain anyway so he couldnt hold my hand anyway. Plus the chances of anything happening on your due date even with a sweep are pretty thin your more likely to be early or even late!

Could you ask your midwife for an appointment while your oh is on his lunch break?

 

[Jellyt]

Aww that sucks! God what is it with inlaws! I don't know if my OH can be with me if I have my sweep and i'm scared about that so know how you feel. Could he get out of school a bit early and then deal with his mum afterwards? I guess once he's come with you there's nothing she can do about it? Obviously I don't know how bad she is etc xx

 

[AyaChan]

how long would it take him to get there from school? if it doesnt take long he might make it in time for the 3 appointment? most doctors surgerys run late anyway lol.

If he isnt able to be there its not the end of the world sweeps arent that bad i promise. When i had mine my DH had to stay behind the curtain anyway so he couldnt hold my hand anyway. Plus the chances of anything happening on your due date even with a sweep are pretty thin your more likely to be early or even late!

Could you ask your midwife for an appointment while your oh is on his lunch break?

It would take him just under an hour to get to mine from his school :/
My midwife usually has her last appointment at 3, which is why I'm worried.

Now I think about it though, I'm pretty sure she only works at the surgery on a Monday, so for my due date she'd come to my house. Do you think if asked her, and explained the situation, I could get her to come at about half 4 ??

Or is that asking to much do you think ?

xx

 

[AyaChan]

Aww that sucks! God what is it with inlaws! I don't know if my OH can be with me if I have my sweep and i'm scared about that so know how you feel. Could he get out of school a bit early and then deal with his mum afterwards? I guess once he's come with you there's nothing she can do about it? Obviously I don't know how bad she is etc xx

Inlaws are evil

I think that may be more trouble than its worth, if I can convince him to do it though, I will haha.

I honestly can't wait for him to be out of his house so I can tell her exactly what I think of her.
I've had to bite my tongue for far to long.

xx

 

[faolan5109]

honestly no, I mean the worst she can say is no. Aw hun I'm sorry you have to deal with that dragon of a women, you know what you could do to get back? Have her in the room when you give birth and when you are in pain start telling her what you really feel about her lol Who would really yell at a girl in labor cmon now?