WishnandHopn
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My husband (38) and I (37) have been TTC for 5 months. I was on the pill for 20 years before we started trying but I have regular 27-28 day cycles and I think we are timing intercourse well around ovulation. My husband *volunteered* to go and have a sperm analysis done last week and when he got the results he said the doctor said they were fine and he didn't need to see him. (he seemed pleased that his hot baths and 150 km of biking per week hadn't hurt his swimmers) I asked to see a copy and I'm not so sure we should be celebrating. His count (24 mil/mL) and motility (38% progressive) seem ok, but morphology is only 3% normal (4% is the cut-off) and there is also a note that there were a large number of immature cells. I won't say I freaked out, but I probably could have reacted better! And of course I've been obsessing about it ever since.
I had my day 3 LH/FSH/estradiol blood test done a couple of days ago so we're waiting on those results now.
So here's my question: if you were me, would you ask to be referred to a fertility specialist now, or keep trying on our own for a few more months? Part of me would like to just enjoy the summer without being poked and prodded. The control freak side of me wants to KNOW what is going on with us, and worries about delaying getting help any longer.
I had my day 3 LH/FSH/estradiol blood test done a couple of days ago so we're waiting on those results now.
So here's my question: if you were me, would you ask to be referred to a fertility specialist now, or keep trying on our own for a few more months? Part of me would like to just enjoy the summer without being poked and prodded. The control freak side of me wants to KNOW what is going on with us, and worries about delaying getting help any longer.