Rosella
mum to two gorgeous girls
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Hi Everyone,
My OH is very squeamish about blood etc, and there is quite a lot of apprehension about being present at the birth. He's really worried he's going to faint and get in the way etc, and I just want to be sure that I'm not left alone in loads of pain with no-one around. I know I can ask someone else to come along as well, but was wondering if anyone else had this problem and how they dealt with it? Is it something the OH's have to see or can they just hold your hand and not go looking around at the other end, IYKWIM? How involved are they really?
Any help much appreciated!!
My OH is very squeamish about blood etc, and there is quite a lot of apprehension about being present at the birth. He's really worried he's going to faint and get in the way etc, and I just want to be sure that I'm not left alone in loads of pain with no-one around. I know I can ask someone else to come along as well, but was wondering if anyone else had this problem and how they dealt with it? Is it something the OH's have to see or can they just hold your hand and not go looking around at the other end, IYKWIM? How involved are they really?
Any help much appreciated!!