Started bleeding alot need advice

[onefineday]

hi ladys
well it finally started properly, im terrified but glad its finaly happening, never thought there would be so much blood, i was hoping you could tell me if i will actually feel baby and stuff coming away, want to take it for creamation but terrified it will come away when im on the toilet
lol
donna

 

[coccyx]

Don't know how many weeks you are, but in my experience( all my miscarriages were before 14 weeks) as the contractions got worse they peaked and lot of 'tissue/large clots came away. Was told this was foetal tissue. Felt like I was passing an egg. Once this had come away the pains were less and the bleeding eased. I took analgesia before the pains got too bad which helped. Thinking of you at this difficult time Hope thats not too much detail.

 

[onefineday]

thankyou so much for your reply it helps alot, i was 9 weeks
lol
donna

 

[onefineday]

i diddnt know about getting contractions

 

[Carley]

I had mini contractions when i lost my baby at 9 weeks. Is there anything I can do hun?

 

[golcarlilly]

i diddnt know about getting contractions

I was just under 8 weeks and had a really big bleed a week ago then went for medical management as the sac hadn't come away, I had really bad contractions all day yesterday and have mild ones on and off today, I think you can expect some as your body lets everything go but they shouldn't be too bad if you are doing things naturally - hope you are ok, hot water bottle/wheat bag helped me a lot as painkillers just didn't touch it

 

[porkpie1981]

 

[onefineday]

thankyou all so much, be lost without you
the bleeding has stopped , this is driving me crazy, wish it would just be over with
lol
donna

 

[bethyb]

hey hun,
hope ur ok.. i know its scary xx

 

[dizzynic]

Hi
If youre scared about the tissue falling in the loo try taking a plastic tub to the loo and pee in that then you can see what you are passing and save it for burial or cremation if thats what you want to do thats what i did as i didnt like the idea of flushing it away down the loo. xx

 

[maccy]

Ahhhh hun, hope your ok, the waiting is so hard. Take care.

 

[xxxjacxxx]

My thoughts are with you....

 

[AmysBumpNo3]

lol?

do you know what that means?

sorry for your loss but its hardley funny.

 

[magicvw]

lol can also mean Lots of Love - I'm sure it was meant that way!
to you - hope you get through it quickly xxx

 

[AmysBumpNo3]

ah i see. my wrong.sorry xx

 

[onefineday]

hi
it means lots of love have no idea what else it could mean
lol
donna

 

[AmysBumpNo3]

hi
it means lots of love have no idea what else it could mean
lol
donna

it also means 'laugh out loud'

got really confusing seeing that at the end of your posts! will make a note what it also means.
hope your coping ok. xx

 

[bethyb]

anyone who had had a miscarriage would not find it funny. And babes im thinking of you. take it easy babes

 

[onefineday]

omg had no idea it ment that as well, will just put lots of love in future , last thing i want to do is upset anyone
and you ladys are wonderfull, thankyou all from the bottom of my heart for everything

 

[bethyb]

take it easy sweets xx