I need some advice. I am a grandmother of 2 children, ages 2 and 4 a boy and a girl. Their mom is living with her boyfriend and has a new baby (toddler now) by him. She has put the two and four year old in the same room and given the extra bedroom to the baby. NOW, my son the two and four year old's father, is remarrying and they are pregnant and planning on doing the same thing! This woman is wonderful to my grandchildren in every way, or has been so far. But I feel like the little boy and girl are getting slighted. Why can't the infant be in the parent's room? Or why not the parents make the finished basement their room and give the children the bedrooms? The two and four year old are at the dad's house every day and evening while mom works and every other weekend. Approximately 3-4 overnights a week. (This is a very small house) Basement is close. I am sad to see my grandchildren who already have to be in this situation not have their own rooms while the children their parents have with others get their own spaces. Am I being unreasonable and overprotective? I have not really voiced my opinion to the parents.