still no bfp 18 months after mc :nope:

[mrs_lukey]

I just dont get it. I have never had a problem getting pregnant before - I have an 8 year old and have had 3 mc's over the years. The last being in March 2009 at 6+6 weeks. So why can't i conceive now????

We're going to see a specialist in a week but I had hoped it wouldn't come down to this. I ovulate regularly, my hubby's swimmers are fine - SO WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH ME

Sorry for the rant - I'm 12dpo and just had a BFN. I cant bear this anymore.

 

[wannabe mam]

So sorry for your losses hun, I know how unbearable it is and its so not fair. Keep trying, dont give up hope, good luck xxx

 

[IsaacEllieMum]

So sorry, I have no idea how the human body works sometimes.....
I hope you get some answers
xxxx

 

[mrs_lukey]

Thanks ladies, sorry for such a moany post but at least I knwo you all understand me.

xx

 

[Dazed]

Sorry hun. I feel your pain. I haven't been trying as long as you, but lately I am just feeling fed up. I actually wanted to start crying to day and I am starting to feel like BnB is making me feel worse even though I love this site.

 

[mrs_lukey]

I don't think it matters how long it has been - if it doesn't happen when you want it to it hurts. We will all get there one day - I just wish that day was today!!

Everyone keeps saying "you're only young don't panic" and other stuff like that. It doesn't matter that I'm 26 - what matters is that me, my husband and son are all ready so a new family member!

xx

 

[Dazed]

I know what you mean. I'm 28 and ttc my first. I am starting to feel like it is never going to happen. I am boiling it all down to PMS at the moment and just a bad week.

 

[mrs_lukey]

How long have you been trying for hunnie??xx

 

[Dazed]

We started about a year ago. Conceived in January MC in Jan/Feb been trying since. Like I said, I know its not nearly as long as you!! But the feelings are still there.

 

[croydongirl]

So sorry you are in this position, I am sure it is a very difficult place to be. I know this is easier said than done, but try to relax. Stress has a big effect on conception. It sounds like you are in a great position to conceive physically try not to put so much pressure on yourself. It will happen!!

 

[Starry Night]

So sorry for your loss. It's such a tough spot to be. Some days is upbeat and you feel that the bfp is around the corner and the next day....it'll never happen and your world is shattered. But I think we'll pull through.

Hope you can find an answer and get your bubs soon.

 

[mrs_lukey]

Thanks for the support ladies. The bloody witch appeared AGAIN yesterday so I am now on CD2 - AGAIN!!

FX for all of us to get our happy endings soon

xxx