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[QuintinsMommy]

I keep hoping my mom will change her mind!
do you think cole is excited to meet his sisters or he just doesn't understand that yet?

 

[annawrigley]

just wondering what do BHs feel like?? xx

 

[QuintinsMommy]

when I 1st got baxton hicks I didn't feel them without touching my belly and it would get rock hard then like 30 seconds later it wouldn't be anymore
sometimes I get some that feel strong and feel like a periond ccramp kinda...

 

[Becyboo__x]

They didnt hurt me when i first got them like preggo said belly just went hard and then back normal again did that few times but now im further along they hurt me now and feel like period pain and a stomach bug as iv found out.. and my belly goes proper hard for few minutes then is normal again might be diff for everyone but i thought i was going to go into labour when i had them bad lol i now wonder what real contractions are going to be like ! .. Oh and if anyone has hip pain or anything like that birthing ball/gym ball is fab :thmubup: i brought one to try make baby drop more but its got rid of my hip pain now he must have been lying on my hip for ages im thinking lol (but dont get a ball if your not near end pregnancy lol cause it can be dangerous and that and you dont want your baby coming too early)

 

[QuintinsMommy]

awe thats good that your hip pain went away

and thats how I would say they feel, I got from bad for the 1st time yesterday after sex TMI sorry. lol but I thought I was going into labour! lol. I took a quick shower and felt better, but I'm scared of what real labour is going to be like if that was just baxton hicks!

 

[QuintinsMommy]

I'm so nervous to look at that apartment tomorrow!
gosh, I hope it's perfect so i dont have to look at anymore!
My mom drove by the outside of it and it looks ugly.. but inside it looks nice..
I hope if its nice they will rent to me..
its like 5 min walk away from my moms
this is the add for it

Upper 2 bedroom apartment in 4-plex building in Thorold South. $660/month, plus hydro.

* separate outdoor & shared indoor entrance
* coin-operated laundry on site
* fridge and stove included
* bright, new windows
* freshly painted with new flooring throughout
* fully renovated bathroom
* non-smoking building
* central to Niagara Falls, St. Catharines and Welland

Ready for January 1.​

 

[Jas029]

Aww the place is gorgeous I hope you get it (or your mom stops being such a- yeah...)
Today I sat down on the couch and I leaned forward to put a pillow behind my back and suddenly got horrible pains under my ribs on both sides almost like a contraction pain. I quickly leaned back and they faded but it hurt so bad..
But if it was BH why would I feel them way up there?
Also when I get the fake contractions I don't notice my belly going hard but I notice my bumps really soft there for a while after getting one..
Also I have this HORRIBLE pain right above my butt where all my stretch marks are on either side..
I mainly get it when I walk as it's a pain that sorta shoots up through my leg (It happens at random, mainly when I first get up from sitting) but it hurts so bad sometimes it almost causes my leg to give out from under me.. Actually my leg has tried to give out from under me multiple times from it when I first stand up but luckily since it's when I first stand up there's something right there to hold onto..
But last night I was trying to sleep and I felt it was so painful even laying on my side on my bump as much as I could to keep pressure off of it was painful.. I wanted to just lie on my stomach like the old days so bad I miss being able to do that..

 

[Becyboo__x]

The place looks really nice i hope you get it and everything id love to have something like that just a little cosy place my mum lives in an appartment with my step dad and i LOVE it there just so snug and like newly furnished

And Jas.. it might be how hes positioned like if he sticks into you or is just ly in a awkard way lol i realised my hip pain was from that so glad i got rid of it though cause it was killing me .. i havent had that many BH's im sure the worst ones were christmas eve though if they werent BH's then it just wasnt normal lol! im really silly aswell everytime i go to the loo or in the bath or anything like that i keep thinking my waters are going to go i think when it does happen ill have a shock lol! x

 

[Jas029]

I feel the same way about the bathroom part and I'm a month behind you!
Well.. From what we could tell from the 4d ultrasound a few weeks ago he's apparently head down and facing my back.. I don't know what odd position would be causing pains back there but they HURT..
Some woman say they have "back labor" my mom called hers with my brother "butt labor"
Mine's going to be right in-between those with these horrible lower back pains I just know it

 

[EmziixBo0o]

missed u girlies,
had a good christmas?
arnt ashleys twins tiny!
awww soo cute xxx

 

[annawrigley]

i think ive had something like that before actually, was really confused by it, whole stomach went rock hard for 30 secs or so then went back to normal.. and yer like preggo was after sex
was ages ago tho like 20 weeks? can it even happen that early?
rome that place looks really nice i hope you get it. will be nice to have a place of your own xx

 

[QuintinsMommy]

ya 20 weeks isnt too early to get baxton hicks after sex. lol
cause when I had sex around that time my tummy would get super tight after, now when I have sex it goes really tight but I will have baxton on and off for awhile after..
lol I feel like I sound like I have lots of sex. lol I dont

 

[Becyboo__x]

Lol i was just going to say how come you guys are getting action im not but i could i spose if i wanted off fob but iv decided im not going to do it cause its unfair spesh if i just want to be 'friends' with him lol.. but im not wanting it at min tbh iv proper gone off it alot i feel too big and heavy and everything lol.. just dont feel attractive at all .. but then again i do have the dirty dreams and stuff but i spose its just my hormones !!

theres likes 8-9 january babies born already seems 1 is born everyday im getting abit anxious i wouldnt mind when he comes from now but i just want a warning or sign lol dont want to be out and my waters go! ... and as for the sales i think you lot was talking bout it in the other thread .. iv been on boxing day only to a little place and got 3 pairs shoes/trainers and a black coat and a few tops for Jace that hardly cost anything cause they were on sale but there soo nice!! Only other things i got was picture frames and a picture to go in my room once i can do it up lol! and a top for me that pink one in my avator .. cant member what else i got haha ill post some pics of the baby stuff later xx

 

[QuintinsMommy]

9 babies already?
I want my little guy to stay in there just a little bit longer, I wanna find a place to live 1st.
where ever I go, I think to myself *please god, i hope my waters dont break*
ahaha

 

[Becyboo__x]

I think theres 8 but im sure there was another recently im getting lost with it all already ... and wel nothin is even sorted at mine my stupid sister aint goin back to uni now till like 6th of january .. WTF.. my dad said he would help me move rooms today as iv got a box room and my sisters ment to be goin in tht so i can have bigger room as she dont even live here she lives at uni with her friends in a house!!! that she pays rent for but she comes back on holidays but she dont need a big room .. but anyway my dad now says he cant do the rooms cause my sister isnt well.. thats her fault tbh shes always ill when she comes back from her bfs or from uni and tbh i dont want to get a bug or anything so close to my due date .. so now iv got to wait til thursday till my mum can get around and help me move furniture .. i feel so unprepared.. iv got all the stuff but the room needs sorting out properley and i cant do anything til she decided to move either go back to uni or agrees to get out the room where my cot is.. but she not go back to uni cause her friends arent at the house cause theyve all gone home for christmas ..proper pissing me off now .. she just thinks shes head of house when she comes back and she can do what she wants like she rules over me cause shes older .. but she knows what happens when she starts always ends up in a fight and i win and she crys and tells mum/dad and i end up getting a mouthful she just needs to piss off and move out cause she thinks shes so perfect.

Sorry about all that but im in a foul mood and my dad is just being an arseole now not even listening to me that i NEED to sort the rooms cause what if the baby came this week? and nothing is in place going to be a big mess.. and to top it off my sisters walking around coughing and sneezing constantly im bound to get something might just scream house down if it carries on

 

[QuintinsMommy]

awe poor becy thats how I feel now, VERY unprepared. I had my room painted blue, and the crib and everything all set up and everything where it should be but now I might have to pack it all up again.

I hope you don't get sick becy.

 

[annawrigley]

Lol i was just going to say how come you guys are getting action im not

haha im not anymore, this was when i was still with FOB
id be so frustrated about the rooms if i were you btw, hate knowing that everythings not all sorted spesh as you're getting close
xx

 

[Becyboo__x]

Im just leaving the room cause its cream and his cot bedding is cream anyway and for abit im sharing rooms with him anyway so i think im just having room way i want it instead of having a nursery as such lol.. but if we end up moving next year like we plan to then no point me decorating i give up lol!! i hope i dont get sick either i already feel abit different but i think thats just pregnancy lol but her bfs got a chest infection and i think shes brought that back with her its all i need ..

Wel i hope i get sorted before baby comes or im going to tear my hair out! hope your all ready all i can say is just make sue you get the room ready 2-3 weeks before due date or even before lol but i spose it depends whats going to happen with you i hope it dont end up in a mess with you like it has me!

Oh and sorry TMI .. but iv now started to lose my plug! not like its a sign but least its a step closer i spose .. iv read that if you get a bloody show in your plug before 37 weeks you have to ring your midwife cause that means labour could happen in days or weeks

 

[Becyboo__x]

Lol i was just going to say how come you guys are getting action im not

haha im not anymore, this was when i was still with FOB
id be so frustrated about the rooms if i were you btw, hate knowing that everythings not all sorted spesh as you're getting close
xx

Yeah was same with me but fob ended up saying he cant do it with me cause he finds it strange and everything cause of my bump lol bless him but im glad i feelt same way tbh and most lads have the thing about ''will i hurt the baby''

Wel i hope he doesnt come yet my mums coming to help me thursday thank god but now iv got to wait till then everything needs boxing up and just moving! and iv now lost my storage boxes great im such a divvy forgetting where things are
x

 

[annawrigley]

haha yeah FOB used to be like "do you think i poked his head?"