JoeyTT01
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Hi,
I haven't posted on here before but often read everyones stories and sometimes reply. It's so helpful to know there are people going through the same thing.
I went for my 12 week scan on the 4th Feb and found I had a MMC at 7 weeks. I opted to have an ERPC the next day which went fine, had to go back into hospital a few days later as I had heavier bleeding. But was scanned and they said there was nothing left so didn't have to have a repeat procedure. I had a week off work to recover, and then went back for a week and then on holiday for a week (which was already booked).
I guess I am posting as I don't feel like I am moving on very well. I am so up and down and can't stop thinking about it all. My DH has been great and very supportive but I feel like my sister (who is 36weeks pregnant) and friends don't seem to be that supportive. My sister has said some really thoughtless comments about maybe I shouldn't tell people next time, and that I should take things easier next time and that I shouldn't consider pregnancy real until I have a baby in my arms. I do go to the gym lots but was very sensible when I was pregnant...it feels like she is sort of saying I could have prevented it by taking it easier.
I saw a friend for dinner last night and she didn't even mention it or ask how I am. I guess she thinks its behind me now as it happened 7 weeks ago, but it was the first time I'd seen her since I told her I was pregnant in Jan. I ended up sobbing all the way home.
Do you think its the increased hormones etc that are making things harder? I had my first AF a couple of weeks ago and am just waiting to OV now. We decided to start trying again this month as I am 35 and don't want to leave it too long.
Anyway, sorry for my rambling on.
Good luck to you all, Jo xx
I haven't posted on here before but often read everyones stories and sometimes reply. It's so helpful to know there are people going through the same thing.
I went for my 12 week scan on the 4th Feb and found I had a MMC at 7 weeks. I opted to have an ERPC the next day which went fine, had to go back into hospital a few days later as I had heavier bleeding. But was scanned and they said there was nothing left so didn't have to have a repeat procedure. I had a week off work to recover, and then went back for a week and then on holiday for a week (which was already booked).
I guess I am posting as I don't feel like I am moving on very well. I am so up and down and can't stop thinking about it all. My DH has been great and very supportive but I feel like my sister (who is 36weeks pregnant) and friends don't seem to be that supportive. My sister has said some really thoughtless comments about maybe I shouldn't tell people next time, and that I should take things easier next time and that I shouldn't consider pregnancy real until I have a baby in my arms. I do go to the gym lots but was very sensible when I was pregnant...it feels like she is sort of saying I could have prevented it by taking it easier.
I saw a friend for dinner last night and she didn't even mention it or ask how I am. I guess she thinks its behind me now as it happened 7 weeks ago, but it was the first time I'd seen her since I told her I was pregnant in Jan. I ended up sobbing all the way home.
Do you think its the increased hormones etc that are making things harder? I had my first AF a couple of weeks ago and am just waiting to OV now. We decided to start trying again this month as I am 35 and don't want to leave it too long.
Anyway, sorry for my rambling on.
Good luck to you all, Jo xx