Study troubles!?

[StephanieRose]

Hi, Im 16 and currently 21 weeks pregnant with a baby boy I am doing correspondence (home school) To get my high school levels so I can move forward to university, but Im having so much trouble focusing, I look at the page and just lose all thought! Any one else having problems like this? And how do/ did you get around it!? Please help

 

[thecurlymama]

Hey! I'm 16 too, and 23weeks along. I am having the exact same problem! I just dropped classes I was taking and I'm trying to start an online school that will let me finish my diploma on my own schedule.

I am so unfocused all the time it feels like, though! The only time I'm content is if I'm organizing baby clothes, doing art or with my boyfriend. I'm hating school and feeling so unmotivated! It sucks cause I really want to finish high school asap.

 

[StephanieRose]

That is exactly how I am feeling, unless I am doing something for my baby's arrival, or cleaning the house my mind just wanders! Im feeling as if I'm never going to get my high school qualifications done! And I'm always home alone, as Im not with my baby's father any more, and my family is always at work, which would usually be the perfect time for me to study but I cant!

 

[thecurlymama]

That is exactly how I am feeling, unless I am doing something for my baby's arrival, or cleaning the house my mind just wanders! Im feeling as if I'm never going to get my high school qualifications done! And I'm always home alone, as Im not with my baby's father any more, and my family is always at work, which would usually be the perfect time for me to study but I cant!

Crazy, that's almost my EXACT situation! I'm with my baby's dad, but he lives across town so we usually only spend one night a week together and then the weekends. All my family works all day so I'm home alone all day too, so I usually just clean the house or plan for baby. It's pretty nerve wracking and I feel like I'll never get anything school-wise done, but it's almost like willpower that I can't control!

Where do you live?

 

[StephanieRose]

I live in New Zealand

 

[thecurlymama]

Haha, Oh yeah I noticed that once I had posted my reply. It's too bad that we're not closer, I could use a buddy near me!

But I'd love to keep in touch even if we aren't near by each other!

 

[StephanieRose]

Yeah I could use one by me too! All my friends ditched when they found out I was pregnant. I'd love to keep in touch

 

[teenmommy15]

cutting in lol- im so jealous of your guys' bumps!

 

[StephanieRose]

Don't be jealous of mine! Haha I've gone through so much pain with over stretched and torn ligaments to get mine!

 

[teenmommy15]

lol me too and mines gross haha

 

[StephanieRose]

Your bump look beautiful to me And any baby bump is beautiful because they all have a baby growing in them

 

[teenmommy15]

true im sure it will get nicer looking but it kinda just looks fat it doesnt like pregnant, well it depends on where shes laying but as i get further along i hope it gets nicer

 

[StephanieRose]

Mine just looked like fat to start with, and I felt horrible about it! But then I woke up one day and it was like a ball sitting in my belly! It went hard as rock and round, and has been ever since

 

[MiSS.M0MMY2BE]

Mine just looked like fat to start with, and I felt horrible about it! But then I woke up one day and it was like a ball sitting in my belly! It went hard as rock and round, and has been ever since

How many weeks were you when this happened? Just curious lol.

 

[StephanieRose]

About 19 weeks

 

[thecurlymama]

Same happened for me... one day it just looked all round and felt hard... that was around the same time that I first felt him kicking. I was 19w+4 when that first happened. I f'cking love my bump now... but bethany your bump is gorgeous ! I love it.

 

[jozylynn896]

Totally not what this thread should be about but same with me too. I looked like this fat THING and then one day it hot all round and sexy pregnant looking and I love it now lol.

 

[thecurlymama]

hahaha well we WERE talking about study troubles at the beginning but you know how these things go. lol love your description jozylnn!

 

[teenmommy15]

aww thanks Emma i know i think its just taking my bump a little longer to get fully hard and sexy as jozylynn says, but im hoping by the end of the month it will be at the place i want it lol

 

[thecurlymama]

aww thanks Emma i know i think its just taking my bump a little longer to get fully hard and sexy as jozylynn says, but im hoping by the end of the month it will be at the place i want it lol

for sure! haha ...actually I'm scared that once I get to 3rd tri I'm going to pop out again and he's gonna have another growing spree that's going to make me fuckin huge. I've seen it happen to other women with similar bumps to mine and similar body types and I'm honestly really content with my bump staying small right now.